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 Posted: Tue Jan 11, 2011 3:49 pm
i have this frend who was having a fight with her parents and cut her self and she tells me she doesnt want to be sent away to like a mental institute cause last time was really bad what should i say or do to make her feel better about the whole situation
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Posted: Tue Jan 11, 2011 4:08 pm
Well, you should tell her that everything is alright, first. Give her a hug. No matter the situation, things can get better with a smile and a hug. However, if she is seriously getting hurt, a life is more important than a promise.
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Colorful Shadows Vice Captain
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Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2011 3:07 pm
Colorful Shadows Well, you should tell her that everything is alright, first. Give her a hug. No matter the situation, things can get better with a smile and a hug. However, if she is seriously getting hurt, a life is more important than a promise. Ditto
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Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2011 9:47 pm
Colorful Shadows Well, you should tell her that everything is alright, first. Give her a hug. No matter the situation, things can get better with a smile and a hug. However, if she is seriously getting hurt, a life is more important than a promise. that's good advice. Let her know that you're there for her in whatever happens, tell her if she ever needs someone to call or to talk to or to spend time with you're there. Sometimes the only thing you CAN give is support, because sometimes there's no right, fix-it words.
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Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2011 10:06 pm
Tell her everything will be okay in the future and in [x] amount of years, she'll be free and it'll pass by quicker than she thinks, and with the cutting. Tell her it won't do s**t about her problem, especially if she doesn't want to be sent off. All it's gonna do is screw your body up and leave a bunch of scars. Believe me, I know.
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2011 9:53 am
I know what you're going through. Tell your friend that cutting herself isn't the answer. It'll hurt her more than relieve. She'll probably say it's relieving, but tell her it's really not. You need to convince her that soon she'll be free to do whatever she want.
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Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2011 8:53 am
She needs help with the cutting. There are online groups if she does not want to go to a doctor, but she has to talk to someone. If she refuses, tell her parents yourself. She may hate you at first, but she will thank you in the future.
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Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2011 3:47 pm
I've told her so many tomes now she's done it again cause a boy broke up with her for another girl and yeah wen I see the cuts I flinch and it hurts to see them like I feel that just me talking to her is not helping much cause she can do it and it scares me
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Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2011 3:54 pm
sing of love n cupcakes I've told her so many tomes now she's done it again cause a boy broke up with her for another girl and yeah wen I see the cuts I flinch and it hurts to see them like I feel that just me talking to her is not helping much cause she can do it and it scares me She does have a problem, and she does need mental help. Whether she 'wants' to or not, she needs a psychiatrist, maybe not asylum, but some kind of mental help if a break up leads to cutting.
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Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2011 9:24 pm
I suppose your right but idk her parents aren't exactly the best
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 11:44 am
sing of love n cupcakes I suppose your right but idk her parents aren't exactly the best Well, you should try to get a job, and maybe try to pay for one. Yes, they are expensive, but that's what an after school job is for.
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Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2011 2:25 pm
UnoriginalSin1753 She needs help with the cutting. There are online groups if she does not want to go to a doctor, but she has to talk to someone. If she refuses, tell her parents yourself. She may hate you at first, but she will thank you in the future. I believe her parents could be in denial. Tell your parents, too, if that's the case.
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