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 Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 1:18 am
I'm told I'm too crude.
That I act too much like a dude.
Which I never thought was a problem, because I know I'm being myself. I may seem cocky at times, but people know I'm only being sarcastic, joking, trying to lighten up the mood, etc. etc.
The female friends I finally have made here, were really tight or so I though. Until I was told by a good friend that they talk s**t about me all the time. They said I try too hard to get attention and that I act too much like a dude.
The guys defended me saying that I'm being myself and that they're acting like girls and just feel like starting drama because I'm an attractive female. lol
However, for once, it bothers me. I think it bothers me because I'm trying to make friends here (Not so much trying but being myself and socializing) and though I make friends easily, I always seem to make many and lose
just as many in the end.
I know we all run into these kind of people. That the true friends will filter out.
But I feel like I run into them more than others. And best friends have noticed that too about me.
Well, I'm leaving to go back to Virginia for 3 weeks. I miss all my good and true friends back home.
I don't know why I care so much if people like me or not here in Cali. :/
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:47 am
You care cause it's just nice to be liked by people.
Some of my male friends complain that I don't have enough female friends, they joke that I'm acting like I'm too good for girls.
Uh, not really.
It's just that I make friends easier with boys because I don't think like the girls here... idk. It's what ever.
As I said, it's just nice to be liked by people. It makes sense if you're offended that the girls talk behind your back. It doesn't have to be the end of the world, but it's still not fun.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 10:14 am
I know what your talking about.
If I were you I'd just try some other circles of friends to see if they fit you better.
I did that after my "friends" from one group totally dumped me fore similar reasons and I found that mixing my old guy friends with my new girl friends worked out fine.
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