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 Posted: Fri Dec 24, 2010 1:49 am
I really need some advice as to what to do about this!
So there has been this guy that I've liked for the past 6 months or so, but he is one of my really good guy friends. we're part of this small goup of friends that are really close, also he use to date one of my other friends in the group but she moved away. So what I'm asking is what do I do with my feelings? Do I tell him? If I do tell him, what would I say? What if this ruins our friendship? Should i just keep them to myself? Also he has a gaia account too.Should I tell him on here then. Please can you guys help me!?
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Posted: Fri Dec 24, 2010 1:54 am
Tell him IRL and away from your other group of friends. Basically in private. I doubt that it will negativly effect your friendship status. I know when I like a girl, and I don't know if she likes me back, I wish she would ask me first.
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Posted: Fri Dec 24, 2010 2:03 am
Yes a guy's view! Thank you! You don't have to answer this but how would you show a girl that your in to her?
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Posted: Sat Jan 08, 2011 12:15 pm
I'm a guy irl.
In my opinion, I would just tell her how I feel, from the bottom of my heart.
Though after saying it, I lose myself, where I can no longer control my emotions.
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Posted: Sun Feb 06, 2011 12:50 pm
You should tell him. Maybe he secretly likes you back. However, guys DONT like to talk about feelings so don't be all like. " there is this guy, and I really like him, he makes me happy, ect." He'll get lost, and he won't have interest in you.
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 11:28 am
Go for it. I'd do it IRL. You can't learn to swim unless you hop in the pool.
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 6:33 pm
I'd first be flirtatious and see if he responds, because you don't want to put yourself out there and then be shut down.
Then, I'd tell him in private away from your other friends, and yeah.. Don't try and be cryptic or anything, because guys are pretty straight forward.
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 7:05 pm
Ok IRL I had the same thing happen to me, I told the guy and He and I are now ingaged. So I saw go for it, if he does shut you out it just means he wasn't the right one for you, think about it. How many times have guys fallen with girl who dumped them, same thing happens with girls too. the best thing you could do is, if he shoots you down, brush yourself off, and make your feelings more towards a brotherly kind of way. I've done that with everyone of my ex's and I'm still good friends with everyone of them. ^_^
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Posted: Mon Mar 14, 2011 1:08 pm
I think you should tell him IRL. As for if it`ll ruin your friendship? I highly doubt that. I know people are different, but I`m friends with several people who`ve said they like me :/
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Posted: Mon Mar 14, 2011 2:05 pm
Well, I have this friend that I've like for two years or so but never told... On my birthday I had the chance to tell him (and everyone told me he liked me after this happened) when my group of friends and I were playing truth or dare, someone asked me if I likedhim and I chickened out which I so regret because something could have happened sad So recently at a friends birthday there were four of us, two guys(including the guy I like) Him and his friend(who's like my gay best friend that's not really gay) told me they both really liked me before! So I tod my guy that i've liked him for ages but unforunatly he was upset about a messy breakup that he is now over so maybe now that he knows something might happen smile
What I'm basically saying is don't miss your chance like I did C:
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Posted: Sun Mar 27, 2011 6:38 pm
I wouldn't tell him because what if he doesn't feel the same about you, you can end up losing a really good friend.
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