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PostPosted: Fri Dec 03, 2010 8:00 pm


i have an issue cuz i feel like my friend hates me, even tho she says she loves me, but she never shows any "love''

What should i do
PostPosted: Fri Dec 03, 2010 9:57 pm


Well I have the similar problem, but it's with 2 friends.
Ask her why she's acting rude, if your willing to and if she won't flip out. Act sincere and maybe she'll see your pain, just keep your chin and take action.

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 07, 2010 4:34 am


yea its better to ask and show how u feel then to say nothing had have everyone clueless good luck though
PostPosted: Fri Dec 10, 2010 12:55 pm


I have the same issue. She gets mad over anything. She's really nice and funny, but she's so... annoying.

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 03, 2011 4:47 pm


My friend does that. I really dislike her now. That might be the sign that your friendship is ending. If she still cares that you get mad, reconsider that..
PostPosted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 1:16 pm


@Smiles- Are you still buds with her?

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 01, 2011 2:58 pm


Depends on what you mean by not showing it. I'm the type of person that I care about my friends, but I'm not showy about it. I don't have to talk to them every single day or hang out on a regular basis. If you're being stupid and I know it, I'll let you know and then let you figure out for yourself why you were being stupid, I won't back you up for instance on a fight you yourself started and had no business starting. But I'll have your back when you really need it and despite the lack of constantly staying in touch, I'll come running at the drop of a hat if I need to.

Different people work differently, you can't expect everyone to act exactly the same or have their world revolve around you. That's of course assuming your friend's telling the truth and really does love you, just isn't the showy affectionate type of person.
PostPosted: Tue Feb 22, 2011 7:25 am


Colorful Shadows
My friend does that. I really dislike her now. That might be the sign that your friendship is ending. If she still cares that you get mad, reconsider that..

who is this friend?

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 22, 2011 8:41 am


maybe because you're taking too much space of hers
why dont you guys temporarily end your friendship like maybe for a week?
see if you guys meet each other
if not
guess shes not your best friend anymore
PostPosted: Wed Mar 23, 2011 8:50 am


She may not be that kind of person. I have a friend that is a bit of a flake. She will make plans and then decide that she does not feel like following through with them. We live three blocks from one another, work in the same place, but we may not speak to one another for months. She does not feel the need to be social everyday and only seeks me out when she is ready. I have other friends and activities to keep me occupied, so it works for me too. I am there for her when she needs me and that is what friends do.
Hope that helps.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 27, 2011 4:49 pm


well it depends what do u mean by not showing it? i never tell my friends i love them but they kno that i do. im just not a warm-hearted person, so i dont really show my emotions. if they are acting like that then it could just be there personality but if they are being jerks then u should talk to them about it and if they get all angry and say ur being a jerk then i guess u two weren't as close as u thought
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