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 Posted: Mon Nov 15, 2010 3:40 pm
My boyfriend and I have been dating for more than a year now, and he knows that I'm bi, but recently I've developed a crush of sorts on a girl. She doesn't really know me, but I see her all the time... she's even appeared in my dreams. On the one hand, I want to do nothing and forget about it and continue my wonderful relationship with my boyfriend; on the other hand, I'm not sure anything will ever satiate my curiosity -- I want to be with her!
Should I introduce myself to her and see if we have the potential for a relationship, or should I let the whole thing slide? Suggestions, please! confused
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Posted: Tue Nov 16, 2010 3:16 am
Well there is no harm in intraducing yourself to her an potentally becoming friends. You could find out that she is not as your imagination made her and the crush could go/subside. But then your crush could get worse...
But the thing about crushes is that tey are really intence without really having to much to base it on.
And if you to find that you could have a potential together, would you forfit your boyfriend?
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Posted: Tue Nov 16, 2010 6:08 am
I agree...it doesn't hurt to introduce yourself. If you don't do that then you might be wondering about it forever. The crush might go away or get stronger, but at least you will know. Then you can deal with what to do after that.
I think people will get crushes on others even when they are dating awesome partners, but that doesn't mean anything will or should happen.
I tend to get a lot of crushes but they are little ones that tend to go away after a while...or I just know that they aren't super serious.
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