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 Posted: Mon Nov 08, 2010 5:06 pm
Hi guys (and anybody who can help, really). I went out on a date with this guy the other night and....let's just say that things got a little bit frisky. My question is: what can I do to make things go more smoothly (pun intended) when a guy is back there? (If this is rather vague, I don't know what I should or shouldn't say in the guild so openly)
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Posted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 2:26 am
Relax and use lots of lube 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Nov 18, 2010 1:58 pm
Lay on your side and i don't know a good way to say this lol so im just going too kind of push like you have to potty BUT DO NOT POTTY that wouldn't be a happy top lol i find it opens your backdoor more so it's easier for them to step in sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 7:25 am
just relax and enjoy the pain... blaugh
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 10:39 am
I don't like pain! >.<
It was only about half of his middle finger, but FFFFFFFF it was a tad painful.
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Posted: Sun Nov 21, 2010 2:08 pm
What has worked well for me and people that I have topped is just basically taking it slow, using lots of lube and just taking it one finger at a time, then go up to two. Then just go for it, slowly... Naturally it will hurt, but that will make it hurt less
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Posted: Sun Nov 21, 2010 4:30 pm
Agree with using lots of lube and starting with fingers. Also, and this is especially true for if/when the guy has his c**k in you, try to reposition if something hurts. It might not be that he's too big or in too deep but just not at the right angle.
Good luck and have fun! smile
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Posted: Sun Nov 21, 2010 4:45 pm
I have an idea you could use half a muscle relaxer so that you won't totally be out but you well um so that there won't be so much resistance and that maybe it won't be so bad sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Nov 21, 2010 4:47 pm
I don't want to be slightly loopy when I do that! XD
Also, thanks for all of your help, everyone.
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Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2010 2:59 am
momijisohma619 I have an idea you could use half a muscle relaxer so that you won't totally be out but you well um so that there won't be so much resistance and that maybe it won't be so bad sweatdrop I've tried something like that before but with poppers (ahh I remeber getting wasted on them in a pub in the cerntre of London, good times...) Didn't really work for us. But as it's been said go slow and listen to our body.
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Posted: Sun Feb 06, 2011 7:38 pm
I was in the same situation. If you use a lot of lube (Gel Water based Recommend eg. KY Jelly) It should go in "smoothly". It might take you a couple of tries before you can do it without any pain. I hope this helps you.
Best wishes to you...
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 10:00 pm
my boyfriend always wanted to try this and im open to try things and honestly i was interested in it BUT was scared he would tear me or something so i bought some ky jelly lube and at night while i laid in bed i would... prepare myself one finger at a time and i didnt rush, practicing relaxing my muscles and seeing how it felt when i didnt, after about a week or two we tried it for the first time... i worked myself first and then they helped, but i do have some tips
1. lots of lube, have them position themselves right behind yo
2. ease yourself back onto them, tell them not to move just to allow you to get use to... them
after a while you will loosen up but take your time
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