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 Posted: Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:48 pm
meeting a nice guy in high school, but now of course I totally think I'm wrong. I'm getting tired of just getting a once-over by people and people saying, "she's cute, but I wouldn't date her."
The guy that I've been interested in for awhile is going out with this one girl who is just so perfect, she's not mean of stupid or anything like that but how am I supposed to compete with that?
I'm tired of all the girls who dress like whores getting all the attention and girls who are super loud. I dress comfortably and tend to be quiet unless I know you well enough.
I know I'm being impatient in finding a good boyfirend or at least potential boyfriend but it's hard to see all these couples everyday and hear my friends talk about their boyfriends.
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Posted: Tue Oct 19, 2010 5:40 pm
Wait for the seasons to change, everyone ends up breaking up. [/sadly not sarcastic, but kinda mean.]
Really, you've just got to find someone who likes you for you, dear. You shouldn't have to dress like a whore or change your personality in order to attract someone who is right for you. =3
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Posted: Wed Oct 20, 2010 3:46 pm
i'll date you
and now we're lovers
and now we're married
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Posted: Wed Oct 20, 2010 5:13 pm
Although my father was tremendously opposed to dating, I didn't get my first boyfriend until I was a freshman in college when I was 19. All of the boys that I went to high school with were either unattractive, already in a relationship. Looking back, I'm glad I didn't date until after I got on my feet. You have almost no obligations in high school and boy does that change fast...and that could put strains on the relationship when you guys start figuring out how you like living on your own.
Let me put it this way:
My boyfriend and I started college at the same time, August 2006. He was still in a relationship with his high school girlfriend (like 3+ years of dating her). He came back from winter break single and we've been dating since February 2007. xd
So I'd say the odds are generally stacked against you if you're looking for a good guy who will stick with you when the big decision of "Now what?" comes up. I can't tell you how many actual friends I had in high school that I haven't seen since I graduated in 2005.
On the other hand though, I do know more than one couple that got married to their long time high school girl/boyfriend at the ripe ol' age of 18 and plopped out a kid 11 months later. Not my ideal relationship but I'd be bummed if NO ONE was able to make it work. xd
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Posted: Wed Oct 20, 2010 5:20 pm
Just wait till after high school. It's a big, huge, wonderful world beyond it, although it often doesn't seem like it at the time.
I was never deemed appealing enough to date in high school, and looking back (and at what a lot of people from my school have become) I'm glad I just did my own thing and didn't get caught up in HS couple drama crap. Because Panique is right; everyone ends up breaking up. Real life happens, and 90% of high school couples can't hack it.
Whatever you do, DO continue to do your own thing and be yourself. When the right person comes along, they (and you) will be happy you did.
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Posted: Wed Oct 20, 2010 8:23 pm
Xhaff i'll date you and now we're lovers and now we're married This.
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