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 Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 7:01 pm
when I was 15 [I'm 18] I was seeing this guy for like 6 months and I didn't realize I didn't like him until I lost my virginity to him, it was like the worst experience of my life. It made me realize I was only attracted to girlies. Kind of a weird way to find out. How did you find out?
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 7:33 pm
I think deep down I always knew I was attracted to women, but I didn't realize it until I was fourteen when a friend of mine told me she had a crush on me. It really got me thinking. Made me realize.
On another note, I'm sorry you didn't realize yourself until it was to late.
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 8:33 pm
Yeah, alotta wasted years, I dated quite a few guys. When I found out it explained so much... XD. I think more girls find out the way you did.
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 8:36 pm
i found out when i was five. like how i was always more drawn towards the other girls and the guys just sorta hit a bad key in my brain.
but i am so sorry you had to find out like that :/ that can be scary.
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 8:50 pm
I wasn't really scared when I found out just more releaved that I knew who I was. I remember those feelings when I was little but I guess I ignored them.
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 9:06 pm
well at five i was actually almost raped so it kinda helped me figure myself out too. though i really think i'm more pansexual then anything. i think gender and physical traits are just a plus to a person. especially if i really like them, i like them for their soul and personality.
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 9:15 pm
Oh I'm sorry, that would do it. Good for you 3nodding
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 9:18 pm
^^...yeah now all the guys are asking me out, and no girls like me. so its like when i really start to like someone they RARELY feel the same way back so its just freaking awkward. and a mess because i show affection a lot. its the way i am and if they find it awkward and uncomfortable then i'm just sorta lost you know?
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Posted: Sun Sep 05, 2010 8:13 am
7th Grade, my best friend told me she was bisexual (which now she is not) and I was like "THATS AN OPTION??? GIRLS CAN LIKE OTHER GIRLS???"
I was a very sheltered child in that aspect and while id heard the term lesbian i never knew exactly what it was. so then i decided that if i could like girls i didnt need to try so hard to like boys.
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Posted: Sun Sep 05, 2010 5:38 pm
true. very true. some guys are just too much of assholes to like. ever.
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Posted: Tue Nov 30, 2010 5:26 pm
That so sucks, i found out in 5th or 6th grade because I realized I was just more attracted to other chicks. It always was awkward in the locker room before and after gym...
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Posted: Wed Dec 01, 2010 8:16 am
I started thinking I was bisexual when I was 13, then this year I realized the guys I thought I liked were just more like brothers to me, and I really only liked girls.
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Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2010 5:48 pm
i kissed a boy in 1st grade and a gurl in 2nd but the fact that i was bi didnt hit me until i was 12. i looked at them the same way i looked at guys and i knew i was gonna be bi. i wasnt in denial. i was totally cool with it
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Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2010 7:45 pm
Tee-Hee_On_Deck i kissed a boy in 1st grade and a gurl in 2nd but the fact that i was bi didnt hit me until i was 12. i looked at them the same way i looked at guys and i knew i was gonna be bi. i wasnt in denial. i was totally cool with it i found out the exact same way only i didnt find out i was bi until about last year cuz like i really never paid that much attention until 1 of my frnds asked me and thats wen it hit me.
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Posted: Sun Dec 12, 2010 3:31 pm
xXQueenB1525xX Tee-Hee_On_Deck i kissed a boy in 1st grade and a gurl in 2nd but the fact that i was bi didnt hit me until i was 12. i looked at them the same way i looked at guys and i knew i was gonna be bi. i wasnt in denial. i was totally cool with it i found out the exact same way only i didnt find out i was bi until about last year cuz like i really never paid that much attention until 1 of my frnds asked me and thats wen it hit me. mine just hit me like a slap in the face. i didnt tell anyone tho but in actuality i didnt care
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