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cajega

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 07, 2010 5:04 pm


GTFO...egl.

So my friend posted a topic after we had a facebook discussion...and now she's being ripped a new one on egl and getoffegl...

Just curious how you guys feel about those communities? Sometimes I agree with the people, but cyber-bullying over fashion? Seems immature to me.

btw, i am active on egl and occasionally read the trash on getoffegl. And loli secrets...*sigh* no comment.
PostPosted: Wed Jul 07, 2010 7:33 pm


Usually GTFO egl isn't as bad as lolisecrets, usually they aren't flagrant personal attacks by just ridiculous, seemingly jealous, narks.
I don't know what your friend got called out on, but usually GTFOegl refers to very specific posts that are either trolling, ridiculous or attention-whoring. Or often about scammers.
In all honesty i don't really want to pollute gaia w/ livejournal nonsense. =(

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 08, 2010 6:32 am


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Usually GTFO egl isn't as bad as lolisecrets, usually they aren't flagrant personal attacks by just ridiculous, seemingly jealous, narks.
I don't know what your friend got called out on, but usually GTFOegl refers to very specific posts that are either trolling, ridiculous or attention-whoring. Or often about scammers.
In all honesty i don't really want to pollute gaia w/ livejournal nonsense. =(


understandable. i hate that communities like it exist though. why can't we just stick with loli_valentines and save the drama for the mamas?

crying
PostPosted: Thu Jul 08, 2010 4:08 pm


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wonderouswashu
Usually GTFO egl isn't as bad as lolisecrets, usually they aren't flagrant personal attacks by just ridiculous, seemingly jealous, narks.
I don't know what your friend got called out on, but usually GTFOegl refers to very specific posts that are either trolling, ridiculous or attention-whoring. Or often about scammers.
In all honesty i don't really want to pollute gaia w/ livejournal nonsense. =(


understandable. i hate that communities like it exist though. why can't we just stick with loli_valentines and save the drama for the mamas?

crying

Although don't get me wrong! i love complaining with other lolis about how terrible and cynical people can be in this fashion ^_^
it drives me bananas to see any person take their opinions about fashion so seriously XD

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 3:36 pm


I think people should just take the drama somewhere else. I've always wanted to post something like "SRSLY GUYS, ENOUGH DRAMA" on EGL, but I know that wouldn't go down well. I've been on lolisecrets before and jeez, are people mean! I don't see why there must be drama that goes along with a fashion. It's just clothes. It's extremely immature that people feel the need to bash others just because of some frilly dress. It's ridiculous.
PostPosted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 7:47 pm


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I think people should just take the drama somewhere else. I've always wanted to post something like "SRSLY GUYS, ENOUGH DRAMA" on EGL, but I know that wouldn't go down well. I've been on lolisecrets before and jeez, are people mean! I don't see why there must be drama that goes along with a fashion. It's just clothes. It's extremely immature that people feel the need to bash others just because of some frilly dress. It's ridiculous.

Fo realziez. the great thing to know is that most lolitas feel the same way that you and me do. The people who lolisecret others are few and far between, they just get a lot of negative attention for doing it. =/

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 25, 2010 12:39 pm


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I think people should just take the drama somewhere else. I've always wanted to post something like "SRSLY GUYS, ENOUGH DRAMA" on EGL, but I know that wouldn't go down well. I've been on lolisecrets before and jeez, are people mean! I don't see why there must be drama that goes along with a fashion. It's just clothes. It's extremely immature that people feel the need to bash others just because of some frilly dress. It's ridiculous.

Fo realziez. the great thing to know is that most lolitas feel the same way that you and me do. The people who lolisecret others are few and far between, they just get a lot of negative attention for doing it. =/

Yeah, it's always good to know that. But like you said, the people that bash others through Lolisecrets and such are frowned upon and I think they deserve it. It's good to vent your feelings sometimes, but not if it will hurt others. I've actually had a friend on EGL that goes to my meets get bashed by others on Lolisecrets. About the way she looks! Not her dresses or outfits or anything, but on her physical appearance. I was so pissed...
PostPosted: Wed Jul 28, 2010 8:32 pm


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I think people should just take the drama somewhere else. I've always wanted to post something like "SRSLY GUYS, ENOUGH DRAMA" on EGL, but I know that wouldn't go down well. I've been on lolisecrets before and jeez, are people mean! I don't see why there must be drama that goes along with a fashion. It's just clothes. It's extremely immature that people feel the need to bash others just because of some frilly dress. It's ridiculous.

Fo realziez. the great thing to know is that most lolitas feel the same way that you and me do. The people who lolisecret others are few and far between, they just get a lot of negative attention for doing it. =/

Yeah, it's always good to know that. But like you said, the people that bash others through Lolisecrets and such are frowned upon and I think they deserve it. It's good to vent your feelings sometimes, but not if it will hurt others. I've actually had a friend on EGL that goes to my meets get bashed by others on Lolisecrets. About the way she looks! Not her dresses or outfits or anything, but on her physical appearance. I was so pissed...

I hate those posts more than any other! where do people get off telling girls that they aren't pretty enough for a fashion? do people really have nothing better to do than bully girls around for stupid reasons like their weight or whether they wear dramatic make-up or w/e it is that people talk about in lolisecrets. grrrrr! scream

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PostPosted: Sun Sep 26, 2010 5:40 pm


Angelic Metamorphose
I think people should just take the drama somewhere else. I've always wanted to post something like "SRSLY GUYS, ENOUGH DRAMA" on EGL, but I know that wouldn't go down well. I've been on lolisecrets before and jeez, are people mean! I don't see why there must be drama that goes along with a fashion. It's just clothes. It's extremely immature that people feel the need to bash others just because of some frilly dress. It's ridiculous.


Someone recently posted on EGL about how we should all get along and stop being mean. She was saying that /cgl/ is so mean.
She was going on about how there's no way that someone could, "be a lolita wrong." She also said that we should be nice to her, because she's 14. Her grammar was atrocious. (I'm sure that your post would have been much more intelligent and eloquent.)

She was posted to getoffegl for it.

A lot of us believe in being polite, but there's no point in announcing to the whole community that we HAVE to be nice. I really don't care that she's 14. There are plenty of people her age and younger on the internet who don't go around spouting their ages and telling people to be nice to them. (I never did that at her age...)

That being said, some people make stupid and/or unwarranted posts on getoffegl and the members set them straight, they lurk more, and the thread often becomes a macro party.

Remember, there will always be drama, no matter where you go in life. The important part is how you react to the drama. If you are level headed and step away from the situation to observe it as a whole, you will gain a better understanding and it will probably be less dramatic. It's also good to not fan the flames.
PostPosted: Wed Oct 27, 2010 11:26 pm


Okay, as much as I'm into "he who does not sin, cast the first stone"

Some of the s**t on that site, was funny as Hell.

On roller-skates.
In a snow blizzard.

XD

I do feel bad for your friend, but seriously? GTFOEGL makes me laugh at the butthurt from both sides.

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 04, 2012 9:23 am


people hated me when I made my first post on EGL, however once you get the hang of it you'll be fine. miss charo-chan at F yeah lolita posted about this onece, here
PostPosted: Thu Apr 04, 2013 7:55 pm


I never participate in any egl community only lurk in their sales. eheh I love lolita fashion and not gonna make such a fuss over some fashion I enjoy eheh ...
 

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