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Kalgara

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 05, 2010 3:26 pm


So in the middle of my first term in college I broke up with my girlfriend of about a year and a month, she was scared to tell her parents I existed and her mom didn't like me all that much anyhow, she would lie to me about little things over and over again and it just started to irk me and it all blew up suddenly over the phone. She stayed in my thoughts for awhile but it all pasted. Fast forward to this summer, I stop up at my old summer hang out place at the public highschool I'm not a part of the school but i'm still welcome and a lot of my friends go up so I pop in every now and again. I see her but I ignore her and hang with some friends. This happens for 3-4 visits but I do notice her blushing and staring at me. Next time I come up she starts talking to me while i'm doing garden work and I humor it and we talk. She vaguely mentions our relationship and kind of missing it. Complete shocker to me, I'm tounge tied my friend saves me from a total embrassing moment by asking for my help inside. My friends go bonkers and keep telling me no, but I'm on the line... should I give her another chance it did end kind of suddenly..

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 05, 2010 3:32 pm


Well first you should ask yourself if you are ready to go through a relationship with someone who isn't out. I mean, do you still love her? And if you do, do you love her enough to go through a relationship with her again, remebering what happened in the past? If I were you I would figure out if she had told her parents yet about you. Then decide whether or not you want her back.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 05, 2010 8:05 pm


Dispite my outfit I am male redface and she keeps dodging answering if she'll talk to her folks about me so I'm thinking no and just to avoid her
PostPosted: Mon Jul 05, 2010 8:28 pm


Oh, sorry. If she won't tell her parents about you then I would say no. Usually when people don't tell their parents about the person they are dating, it means they are ashamed of them. That might be the case with her and you though.

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 15, 2010 10:56 pm


Well Idk. here Ill tell ya what i think. (:

Yes you should because dads are different ya know it might be shes ashamed of you, or it might be shes scared to tell him because he might get mad.......


So there.....

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 11, 2010 9:18 pm


She lied to you and she seems ashamed of who she is. Don't get with someone like that. You deserve to be loved openly and not worried about the one you love being honest.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 6:20 am


If she really wants to change; if she wants a second chance, you should give it to her.
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