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 Posted: Sun Jun 27, 2010 7:03 am
I really need some advice on this...
I have a close friend who is always there for me, listening and giving me advice, she's the best friend I have. I know she's straight, but my feelings towards her are becoming a little bit more. She's always there when I'm upset, and each time she makes things better, a little more love pops up. I need to stop these feelings because I know its not going to do any good and if people find out then it could ruin our friendship, which would be so terrible.
What should I do? Stop these feelings, ignore them, or possible even tell her?
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Posted: Sun Jun 27, 2010 1:51 pm
I think you should just hide them because you don't want for her to look at you differently.
That's just my opinion.
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Posted: Sun Jun 27, 2010 4:00 pm
I say you try to ignore these feelings, though the time will come that you'll need to tell her. You'll know when that time is, but you must be clear with your every word.
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Posted: Sun Jun 27, 2010 5:00 pm
Ignoring it until a later date. Okay, thanks.
I'll go come up with a step-by-step plan for it. I can do this. 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Jun 27, 2010 9:30 pm
I say you tell her. My best friend had a crush on me and never told me until she decided not to be my friend because it caused her emotional stress that I didn't notice. Now I'm still going through emotional stress, because I lost my closest friend.
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Posted: Sun Jun 27, 2010 9:51 pm
I say tell her because if she is close to you she will understand but let her know you understand she is straight and you'd respect her as straight unless she ever wants more... but if you are bestfriends and you didnt want to keep anything from her... even if it may be unwanted attraction
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Posted: Mon Jun 28, 2010 8:11 am
Dang. I know it will weird her out a little, but I will tell her. I want to be able to tell her everything, and maybe admitting it to her will help me move past it.
Hmm... I'll try calling her later. I'll tell you guys what happens!
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Posted: Mon Jun 28, 2010 12:04 pm
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Bang Bang Kitty Lincon Crew
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Posted: Tue Jun 29, 2010 9:34 am
...And she was okay with it, slightly suprised, but she agreed with me, it wouldn't be fair to either of us. She doesn't like girls that way and it would be one-sided for me.
I expected it but it made me a little sad. Got rid of those feelings though, that's good.
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Posted: Tue Jun 29, 2010 9:50 am
Wow, bravo!
I could never be that couragous!
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Posted: Tue Jun 29, 2010 10:55 am
Haha if I can stand up in front of 100 people and recite a memorized speech and not seem nervous when I'm actually quaking in my boots, its not too hard to tell my bestie I like 'em. razz
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Posted: Tue Jun 29, 2010 1:39 pm
True,
But I can't do that either XD
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Posted: Wed Jun 30, 2010 1:44 pm
Ignore them, as I would do.
The friendship would become awkward.
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Posted: Wed Aug 11, 2010 8:54 am
I am glad it seemed to work out. I think you did the right thing.
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