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 Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2010 11:04 am
ok when you hear both at the same time i'm not talking about having sex with a guy and a girl at the same time!!!!
I'm talking about bi-sexual people who think it is ok to have a boyfriend and a girlfriend at the same time!
I had a girlfriend who I really liked i'm not gonna lie and say that i was madly in love with her because i was not. But i can say that my feelings for her were growing at an increasing rate. Anyway I came to find out that not only was she dating me she was dating a guy at the same time!
When I confronted her she said that is was not cheating because we were of different genders!!!!
IDK about what yall would do in a situation like that but i dumped her right then and there even though my feelings for her were growing stronger ever day cheating is cheating there is no way around infidelities!!!
But i want to know your options!
tell me what yall <---(yes i am from texas)would have done!!!
heheh mmmmmkay ^___^
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Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2010 12:16 pm
I would have dumped her, too. Cheating is cheating, regardless of gender. She doesn't get to decide to change the definition of a word just because it's convenient for her. neutral
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Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2010 2:56 pm
Almost Poetic I would have dumped her, too. Cheating is cheating, regardless of gender. She doesn't get to decide to change the definition of a word just because it's convenient for her. neutral
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Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2010 3:24 pm
She cheated on you? Then it's a good thing you dumped her.
It'd be better for her to realize the error of her ways than to continue hurting you.
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Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2010 4:03 pm
White_crow2408 She cheated on you? Then it's a good thing you dumped her. It'd be better for her to realize the error of her ways than to continue hurting you. thank you smile
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Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2010 6:37 pm
Thats not cool. Just because its different genders dosnt mean you can date both at the same time. Its better off dumping her, because its basicly telling you that she doesnt give all your love to you. :3
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Posted: Sun Jun 27, 2010 5:39 pm
I'd say it's cheating, unless it was talked about beforehand (which it wasn't).
If people come to an agreement where a partner can date more than one person, it's a different thing altogether.
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Posted: Sun Jun 27, 2010 9:56 pm
Definately cheating BUT you should have given her a chance first she probably thought it was ok like some bisexuals do so you should have said it wasnt and made her choose... If your feelings grew for her Im sure she felt the same way... she probably would have chosen you and if she did it again after that conversation than dump her
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Posted: Mon Jun 28, 2010 12:08 pm
There is a complete difference between being bi and being polly, but it's a common misconception that ALL bisexuals are pollyamorous (SP?).
Dumping her would of been my first port of call as well, and once i had called down given her a chance to plead her case but meh, unless she had talked to you about having an open relationship, then it's still cheating to me.
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Posted: Wed Jun 30, 2010 2:02 am
I have been in a mutual relationship with a man and women at the same time. I see no problem in a relationship like that as long as you're straight forward about it in the beginning.
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Posted: Wed Jun 30, 2010 1:40 pm
Lately Ive seen alot of those.
When I first saw it I tought it wasnt right, and I still do.
So I wouldve done the same.
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Posted: Wed Jun 30, 2010 4:50 pm
TypeFace There is a complete difference between being bi and being polly, but it's a common misconception that ALL bisexuals are pollyamorous (SP?). Dumping her would of been my first port of call as well, and once i had called down given her a chance to plead her case but meh, unless she had talked to you about having an open relationship, then it's still cheating to me. Totally random but i wanna be in a polly relationship but my guy not cool with that... i think it would be SOOOOO awesome
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Posted: Wed Jul 21, 2010 4:09 pm
Juliet Capulet13 I have been in a mutual relationship with a man and women at the same time. I see no problem in a relationship like that as long as you're straight forward about it in the beginning. "As long as both of your partners are okay with it.
I see no harm."
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Posted: Sun Jul 25, 2010 4:15 pm
Romance_Addiction Juliet Capulet13 I have been in a mutual relationship with a man and women at the same time. I see no problem in a relationship like that as long as you're straight forward about it in the beginning. "As long as both of your partners are okay with it.
I see no harm." agreed
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Posted: Tue Aug 03, 2010 6:30 pm
I'm a bit of a loyalty enthusiast, so of course I would despise such a thing; my ex-boyfriend's desire to have a relationship with another guy while with me (he asked me before making any moves, though, and I said 'no') was a large contribution to why I broke up with him. My belief on this is that bisexuality means you can be attracted to both genders, but you should only give your heart to one person. That part doesn't change.
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