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Tsukiko of the Moon

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 9:36 am


My best friend since fourth grade suddenly doesn't want to be my friend. I sent her a text asking for and answer and she said that in 10th grade she had a crush on me and hoped I would notice. She said that two of our (then) friends noticed, but I didn't and it caused her emotional stress and she said the she's better off not being my friend. I never thought of her that way. She was such a good friend I thought of her as a sister. I'm an only child so my closest friends are my family. She knows how clueless I can be, too! I don't know how she expected me to notice something like that. I had no idea until she told me. I didn't really figure out that I'm bi until late in the school year and she was dating another girl half way through the school year. The thought of not having her as a friend tears me apart. I just don't know what to do...
PostPosted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 10:26 am


My suggestion is that you meet up with her in person and talk about it. If you can't stand losing her, go out with her and see what it's like. If it doesn't suit you, or if you don't like it, tell her that you really want her in your life but you just don't see her that way. Tell her how you really feel about her first though, and see where things lead.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 10:47 am


If you don't want to be without her and you see her as a sister...you have love for her... but not in that way... try it anyway... I fell in love with my play brother... you might like it
PostPosted: Mon Oct 11, 2010 8:49 pm


Kiss her.
If you feel anything for her beyond friendship or sisterhood, then you will know. If not, then in that moment she may know that she doesn't feel for you that way either. But what if you do?

What if in that moment you realize that you do like her? Let her at least have a shot. If it doesn't work out, then you guys can move on and just be friends.

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