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 Posted: Mon Jun 07, 2010 2:44 pm
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Well here is the place to seek advice, and give it.
Help out those lost souls that need your help.
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Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2010 12:40 pm
I need help....Well the last time you heard from me about needing advice was with the man I love... my Stuart...I need some advice again.
Well you see... He now has a way to get ahold of me EVERY day. >w> He calls every single day just to talk to me >w> God I love him... but anywho.....my best friend in the WHOLE world HATES him....I have never seen her hate someone like him before...
She thinks he's going to hurt me, back stab me, only talk to me for...things. Use me and then throw me away...she get's REALLY protective over me...
She has never even talked to him or anything...but yet she hates his guts...I even brought him up one time and she got all mad... she dosen't want me seeing him or talking to him.....what do I do?
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57jellybean5 Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Jun 28, 2010 9:35 pm
Try having her over when he calls and get them to talk. Make her see that he is a nice guy and he loves you and how much you love him. If that doesn't work, you should tell her that she should trust you enough to know what you are doing. You are smart and can take care of yourself. Hope that helps a little.
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Posted: Wed Jun 30, 2010 2:38 pm
It does. We talked a little..actually she brought it up. Last time it caused a HUGE fight.. but we still talked. Our friendship is more important to end over something like this.
She told me "Alex (I trust you guys with my name), I am going to talk to Stuart...so I don't feel sick every time I hear of him or see him." But shes not REALLY trying. ><
He dosen't want her to be mad. He dosen't want to get in the middle of our friendship. He just wants me to be happy..I'm afraid that if he calls when she's here...she'll get all mad. ><
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57jellybean5 Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Jun 30, 2010 4:15 pm
That must be soo hard sad
Well my advice would be to take her up on that, make her talk to him. And if it doesn't work out, then I am so so sorry, but I am not sure what to do then sad
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Posted: Sun Jul 04, 2010 8:57 pm
Luna...I have asked her several times...she wont.. >< We just keep getting into more and more arguments... I suppose this should go into the girl advice forum xD
But we had a HUGE argument... >>...
And she told me I needed to start observing how Stuart really treats me...he treats me better then she does. I looked at my two best friends (Her, and my friend Kelsey), my "big brother", and Stuart..
Stuart=treats me the best, like Im all that matters
Haley= she...tries to control me..
Kelsey= she is my soul sister..she is the best thing that has happened to me
my Big brother= only talks to me when its convenient for him.
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57jellybean5 Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Jul 05, 2010 1:51 am
That's horrible that the two of you keep fighting about this. What does Kelsey think about it? And if she doesn't know, you should tell her, see what she thinks and what she can do.
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Posted: Mon Jul 05, 2010 2:23 pm
Friday night Stuart Called (like he does every night) and she has spent the night. She had been wanting to talk to him for like ever xD
So the three of us chit chated (he was on speaker) and well the results are...she loves him ^^ She just threatened (nicely xD) that if he hurt me she would hunt him down xD
I love my Kelsey >w> THats another irony. She is my "Soul sister"
She has her best friend, I have mine, yet there is this connection between the two of us that I cannot explain. We think the same thing, never judge each other, are open minded, we finish each others sentences, and we could have fun watching grass grow together xD
But she loves him and she (even before she talked to him) is trying to help me any way she can to get the two of us together..I would be lost without kelsey >w<
I just don't know what Haley's problem is. ><
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57jellybean5 Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Jul 05, 2010 4:04 pm
Maybe she is just worried about you. She could have read way too many of those emails that talk about girls getting tricked by people on the Internet or something. I've given you all the advice I can, I don't know what to do about the situation anymore sad James says you should just stop talking about him around her or mention him or anything. I wish I could keep helping, and I'm sorry I didn't give very good advice sad
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Posted: Mon Jul 05, 2010 4:15 pm
Its amazing advice ^^ Thank you Luna, Thank you James. Thank you so much. >ww<
thank you you guys.
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57jellybean5 Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Jul 05, 2010 4:49 pm
No problem, we are here to help! Whenever you need it smile
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Posted: Mon Jul 05, 2010 5:03 pm
Thanks :3 You guys are one of the few that I go to >w<
I mentioned to Stuart that I might send him a letter. He freaked out (in the good "manly way") *giggles* He would love that >w>
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57jellybean5 Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Jul 05, 2010 5:17 pm
Aww that's awesome! I'm so happy for you guys smile
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Posted: Thu Jul 15, 2010 3:12 pm
So...you all already know what happened with my stuart crying
I just have questions about moving on... and I have found ways to help make it better. RPing >w< It helps alot actually. xD
When is too soon to move on?
Is it bad to still want to be his even what he did?
When I move to Cali...should I still give him a chance?
Would it be wrong to maybe have a little more then guy friend to help move it on?
I have some other friends (his name is Tyler..sweet guy...he likes me...i think...Im not sure I want to date him. It would be another long distance...))
And is it wrong to not want another LD relationship? (but all the guys here are too busy being butt heads and "gangsta"))
At the moment I kinda just want cuddling comfort..dont have
friends that will. I think..Do I HAVE to have a boyfriend for stuff like affection?
Is it wrong to flirt so early?
Is it wrong to flirt and not want anything serious?
I kinda want a (someone right) to fill the void...is that wrong?
Ugh so many questions xD
>< Im so confused...
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57jellybean5 Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Jul 17, 2010 11:28 am
Okay, James and I are here to help... the best we can....
Is is never too soon to move on. Some people move on right after they break up, and some people never do. You just will when you are ready.
It is completely normal to still want to be his. I had a LD relationship once with a guy in Ontario... yeah he broke my heart. I still wanted to be his for a while, but eventually I got over it.
When you move, I would say don't give him a chance. He hurt you, badly, why would you want something like that to happen again? But, if you still love him, maybe you should. But that is two years away, you both are going to move on.
I wouldn't be wrong to have a little more than guy friend help you move on. They are very helpful, and since they are more than a guy friend, even just a little, you might move on and start loving him.
It is completely fine to not want another LD relationship. In my opinion, they are the worst. Ever since that guy broke my heart, I never want to date another guy over long distance again. Of course I did, but it was never as bad. But dating people you know, who you've known for a while, who you are able to see each and every day, that is better. Believe me, if I were never able to see James, I would die. <3
No you don't have to have a boyfriend for that. Friends do that too, if you really need it. And, animals actually help really well with cuddling. My kitty pepsi, she is the best cuddler ever. She really helps.
It is never wrong to easily flirt. Flirting is good, fun, and most of the time, harmless.
Flirting and not wanting anything serious is what flirting is all about my friend. Flirt all you want, it may never mean anything.
It is never wrong to want someone to 'fill the void'. Being alone is horrible, you will always want someone to fill the space. My advice, is find whoever you need, but not too quickly. Take your time with it, and actually pick the right one for you.
Hope I could help!
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