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 Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 8:40 pm
Serious topic though.
I don't think I've ever had a friend last longer than 6 months with me. I feel like I just lose interest in people, the same way I lose interest with I dunno. hobbies.. school...
It's not necessarily bad at times when I'm the type who likes to do new things and go out and enjoy. It's basically the need for someone to follow my pace.
But sometimes, I honestly wish I had someone to talk to me. Even if I had a friend close enough to talk to, I can never reveal anything deep down or secret. I feel like I try to keep it platonic because I know we aren't going to last long.
I love being alone most of the time... But it is not healthy to do it too long ... :/
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Posted: Sun Apr 11, 2010 4:41 pm
The problem is you're seeing friendships as relationships.
See them as casual encounters, with favourite casual encounters and encounters that you enjoy.
Don't think of it as a chore to do hobbies with other people, If you begin to lose interests in hobbies that your friends have, ask them If they're interested in your new hobby.
I share pretty much nothin in common with my friends except we like to hang out, that's it - Just find people that like to hang out and enjoy your company.
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