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TantalizedAngel Vice Captain
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 Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 5:53 am
my boyfriend and i have just made it past our one month of being together and this is how we spent it. on top of a hill with other people letting go of balloons in memory of his ex gf who passed away friday. they were together on again and off again for 2 yrs and they hadnt been broking up for about 3 weeks before we got together. she fell sick went to the hospital and passed on a week ago.i need advice on consoling him. my friends tell me to give him space, but when i say this he tells me things like "if you dont want to be with me then tell me," or "You, i feel like this would make us stronger and i know being stronger in god helped also but i guess just listen to them" i totally dont know what to do, he's hasnt been acting like he is majorly upset, but he has been on her page a lot saying stuff like "i love you more than i have ever loved anyone" and "i miss you a lot my arms feel empty without you." it pains me to see this, but i know he is in mourning right now. i just dont know how to help him if he keeps acting like nothing is wrong til he gets online. in front of me its like nothing happened. i know as of now i am the rebound girl, but i love him so much we had something growing really strong when she was well and he had no feelings towards her. i know i want to get through this emotional pain, because he is in worse. i just dont know what to tell him or how to act around him anymore. can someone help me???
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Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 12:39 pm
Ugh, that's tough. It's always tough losing someone you were close to, even if you weren't close to them at the time of death. He's going to be like this for a while- the best thing you can do is very clearly read his emotions and expressions. If he looks like he wants and needs you around, be there. If he wants time alone, respectfully hold off. It might not be a good time to be romantic with him. He's going to be thinking about her a lot for a good while- that's the way it always is. My apologies, and best regards towards the situation.
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TantalizedAngel Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu Apr 08, 2010 12:48 pm
her funeral is today.... sad
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Posted: Thu Apr 08, 2010 6:35 pm
Well, I hope everything goes okay. Funerals are usually the hardest time. Well, at least for me, they always are.
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