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 Posted: Sat Feb 20, 2010 1:34 pm
Okay. Im not sure if it follows the subforum.. Here's an easy topic. Maybe this will trigger other topics.
I know everybody must have aleast one bad relationship with someone. In real life or online. Doesn't matter. You dont have to name names. Cause that is just silly.
What did that person do, to drive yourself away from him/her?
Or
What do you think might have caused the person to behave they way they did?
DISCUSS!
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Posted: Sat Feb 20, 2010 1:46 pm
Kay, I'll go...
My last ex.. Well.. he was very controlling and jealous. I was with him almost 6 years. And now that I look back. He was always like that. I spent most of my time apologizing for going out, spending time with my friends... and even my family members. I couldnt drink any alcoholic beverages or have a cigarette socially.
I couldnt even have any male friends on my cell. Except for gay people. :/
He would always read my texts. And ask me who was texting me.. And if I had male friends. I would use girl names for them instead. LOL xDD
Im really glad Im not with him anymore. I can actually be happy now.
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Posted: Sat Feb 20, 2010 6:40 pm
My last 'real' relationship, I think some of you in here know about it. It was pretty complicated, I don't really want to go into details, but we both said and done things that were bad, and in the end, realized we were better off not together. Things were done I'm not proud of, but that's in the past.
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Posted: Sat Mar 20, 2010 7:26 pm
I have had a lot of them. But I'll stick with the one that changed me forever. Umm my relationship lasted 5 years, and he was my first true love. I lost everything to him. Umm he had cheated on me a couple times and I decided to stay with him. *i was young and stupid this was when we were like 17* we worked through it though and actually really got better. He joined the military, and I waited for him through basic training of course. But then he deployed to Iraq for a year. I continued to wait that whole year, and then he came home. When he came home he was completely different. he wouldn't tell me what he had to do over there or what he saw. But he was just different.
And we lasted 3 months after he came home, and then we broke up. One month later he got with the girl he cheated on me with and married her on the day of our anniversary. They also now have a baby together.
Umm..why did he do it. I think we were both young when we met. Which led to neither of us having been with anyone else. we just were around each other so much we witnessed everything we both had been through. And I think after Iraq he just needed a change. I think I reminded him of so much. I think maybe if we were older and had met...we probably would still be together. But because we were young, and our lives were changing so much it just didn't work.
wow that was a book.lol
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Posted: Wed Mar 24, 2010 8:06 am
My first relationship and only one so far 'cause I'm awesome cool was with a senior at high school. (I was 15 he 1 cool
He said I was intriguing and that he wanted to get to know me better and we became friends. It was all cool for a while and we began "going out". Not really, he just hung out in school and he would walk me home >>;
But some time he suddenly got all emo and creepy and scared the fk out of me. o-e; Among the creepy s**t, was him telling me about a dream were I was all hanging from a rope on his ceiling fan all prettily. Isn't that so totally cute and romantic? [/sarcasm]. gonk
So we broke up. [/runs to the hills] Lasted a month.
My friends in HS at that time sucked because they knew he was creepy as ******** and didn't warn me. Because they thought he needed a girl like me, whatever that meant.
And 3 years later when I was in college, he came by my house a couple of times looking for me. Awwww that's so cute... o_e; My dad told him I moved out.
Been single since. I've gotten a couple of crushes but that's it. And one of the guys I crushed on, my best friend then, turned out to be gay. Actually, he confessed to me he was gay and asked for my support without knowing I liked him. It was awkward and totally unexpected. XD
So that's about it when it comes to me + relationships.
I just totally fail when it comes to these kind of things. And I'm kinda old fashioned and don't to the "first move" : D
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