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 Posted: Wed Feb 17, 2010 4:27 pm
Ok, I had 5 friends in the BIGGEST clique in our school, (there was six of us) and I was Alpha. But then, ever since I told them who I like, 4 of them TOLD HIM, came up to me and said, "Your boyfriend is singing!" around the whole class, and treated me like an old dish towel. I almost got them under control, but then POOF! They say they are not my friend because I am "bossy, vicious and evil." What are they talking about?!?!?! I only tell them what to do when it affects our future! Well, sometimes I can be annoying, like random poking, (only at sleepovers) but that is not VICIOUS now is it? Now I am stuck with 1 bud, and it seems as if the four devils are trying to ruin my life before I move over summer. What do I do with my bud? (I am alpha, and she follows all my commands that I am serious about.) POLL IS ENDING IN 1 WEEK BECAUSE I NEED TO HAVE AN ANSWER!!!!!!!!
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Posted: Thu Feb 18, 2010 4:00 pm
First things first. That sucks; I know that it is rude to say that but it is! Anyway, here is what I would do. Make a public announcement that you so don't like him anymore. && when I mean public announcement, at break, start talking to your old friends, saying that you so do not like him anymore! The word will get around and POOF your world is perfect. Tell me if it works!
--MissToxicPleasure
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Posted: Sun Feb 21, 2010 2:52 pm
I tried that and it does work, but now they r ignoring me and when i sit at MY table where they choose to sit, they shut up and never talk. then in the halls they walk by laughing 2gether, like they said something funny, but, in reality, NO ONE laughs simultaneously like that. No one is talking about me liking him, but they r STILL rude and obnoxious.
PS Yeah, it does, Miss Toxic Pleasure. Yes it does...
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Posted: Sun Feb 21, 2010 5:32 pm
Wow. Those people are just trying to act cool. But maybe you shouldn't tell them that. It would just make everything worse. If they think they can treat you like that, they are so wrong! The only reason they are acting like that is because they are together! If it was only one person they wouldn't treat you like that. So here is what you need to do. Take one of your old friends and talk to them. Talk to them about the "old days" and they will begin to miss you. Tell me how this works...
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Posted: Mon Feb 22, 2010 7:23 pm
Forget about them. From my experience, the girls that are in 'the clique' at my school pretend to be each others' friends and backstab each other constantly. I've never been in a clique, and I never want to be in a clique. I may be different than everyone else and I may not have many friends, but I know I can always trust my friends. I'm also sure I have much more fun hanging out with my weird, crazy friends than the clique does when they hang out.
That doesn't mean ignore them, nor does it mean be their friend. But there are those kinds of people that you don't really know well, but they're not strangers either. Treat them kindly and with respect. If they act mean just walk away. Be careful around them. Don't tell secrets or trust them.
That's the best advice I can give.
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Posted: Sun Feb 28, 2010 2:58 pm
I tried both of your ideas, they worked. They are my buds again. Thanks!
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Posted: Sun Feb 28, 2010 3:05 pm
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