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 Posted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 12:56 pm
I need advice.there is this guy at school.we had some fun but since then he has completely ignored me.what should i do?ive asked my friends and they said he used me.he also has a boyfriend.can i have some help here?
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Posted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 1:09 pm
O.o i think he used you. Maybe you should just forget about him sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 1:10 pm
If I were you I'd go up to him and demand an explaination
but if he keeps ignoring you then tell his boyfriend ;]
teach him a lesson for cheating and for using you.
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Posted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 4:10 pm
I would definitely confront him, and if he does not give an explanation, you should tell his boyfriend because cheating should not go unnoticed.
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Posted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 11:40 pm
He used you. But I don't think that's the issue here. What exactly were you looking for when you were fooling around with him? Were you trying to find a serious relationship? A fling? A long term friend-with-benefits?
Were you aware that he had a boyfriend before you guys went jiggy with it?
My advice to you is to let it go this time. You need to figure out your own emotional limits and why they are what they are. Figure out what sort of consequences you're unable to deal with.
There is NOTHING wrong with using each other as long as it's CONSENSUAL and EVERYONE INVOLVED IS AWARE. There's something very wrong with misleading others, however.
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 1:57 pm
yeah sorry to say but he did use you. I would just stay cautious and hold out till you truly feel its right.
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