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PostPosted: Tue Dec 15, 2009 5:39 pm


She is going out with a guy, since May, and...*tears* She doesn't ...I feel as though she doesn't have enough time to hang out with me. The last time we really talked in person was on July 24. =( And since then, she and I haven't talked one on one. It's always, me and him, me and him, giggle, giggle, and no, "Oh Hey steph! Lets have some fun just you and me at the park!" I feel alone. =(
PostPosted: Tue Dec 15, 2009 6:46 pm


God that sucks. Have you tried really talking to her about this? How much you miss her and the one on one time you two used to share?

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 15, 2009 6:51 pm


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God that sucks. Have you tried really talking to her about this? How much you miss her and the one on one time you two used to share?

Yeah, I told her, she went back to almost normal before she was going out with her bf, but then she went back to her usual-ness. =( She talks to me via IM but I like one on one with her. =(
PostPosted: Tue Dec 15, 2009 7:10 pm


honestly if it was me id just say our friendships over cause she been like ignoring you not caring for you as a bestfriend should doesnt fawkin matter how this guy is best friends are truely important sure being in love is awsome and everything but honestly if im in love (Which i am) i dont drag stuff on i dont blab about how great he is or anyfing like that i keep my love life and my friend life kinda seperate but i may say 1 thing everynow and again but not like u say she is... thats just annoying

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 15, 2009 8:01 pm


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honestly if it was me id just say our friendships over cause she been like ignoring you not caring for you as a bestfriend should doesnt fawkin matter how this guy is best friends are truely important sure being in love is awsome and everything but honestly if im in love (Which i am) i dont drag stuff on i dont blab about how great he is or anyfing like that i keep my love life and my friend life kinda seperate but i may say 1 thing everynow and again but not like u say she is... thats just annoying

No, its not that, its just when I try to talk to her, everyone else talks to her at the same time and I feel alone. she does care about me and she doesn't go around talking about her love life, its just she's caught up in all the excitement and all, she kinda forgets about everyone else at times.
PostPosted: Wed Dec 16, 2009 4:16 pm


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honestly if it was me id just say our friendships over cause she been like ignoring you not caring for you as a bestfriend should doesnt fawkin matter how this guy is best friends are truely important sure being in love is awsome and everything but honestly if im in love (Which i am) i dont drag stuff on i dont blab about how great he is or anyfing like that i keep my love life and my friend life kinda seperate but i may say 1 thing everynow and again but not like u say she is... thats just annoying

No, its not that, its just when I try to talk to her, everyone else talks to her at the same time and I feel alone. she does care about me and she doesn't go around talking about her love life, its just she's caught up in all the excitement and all, she kinda forgets about everyone else at times.

ever tryed getting her alone??

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 16, 2009 5:16 pm


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God that sucks. Have you tried really talking to her about this? How much you miss her and the one on one time you two used to share?

Yeah, I told her, she went back to almost normal before she was going out with her bf, but then she went back to her usual-ness. =( She talks to me via IM but I like one on one with her. =(

I'm not good at things like this, I'm sorry. But I really understand, when everything just goes sour. If talking won't work, shake a little sense into her (not literally) remind her of all the things you guys have shared and all that she will lose if she keeps this up.
PostPosted: Wed Dec 16, 2009 7:37 pm


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honestly if it was me id just say our friendships over cause she been like ignoring you not caring for you as a bestfriend should doesnt fawkin matter how this guy is best friends are truely important sure being in love is awsome and everything but honestly if im in love (Which i am) i dont drag stuff on i dont blab about how great he is or anyfing like that i keep my love life and my friend life kinda seperate but i may say 1 thing everynow and again but not like u say she is... thats just annoying

No, its not that, its just when I try to talk to her, everyone else talks to her at the same time and I feel alone. she does care about me and she doesn't go around talking about her love life, its just she's caught up in all the excitement and all, she kinda forgets about everyone else at times.

ever tryed getting her alone??

Yeah, but when I tried, she was always alone at her house, or she was either with her bf. =(

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 16, 2009 8:37 pm


i guess the best thing to do is hang out with other friends of yours. i had a friend last year who i hardly ever saw or talked on the phone with for the entire second semester and summer, and now we're back to being just as close as ever. the best thing to do is remember you're not alone, chill with some other people, and hang out with her whenever she's willing to make time for you.
PostPosted: Thu Dec 17, 2009 7:30 pm


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i guess the best thing to do is hang out with other friends of yours. i had a friend last year who i hardly ever saw or talked on the phone with for the entire second semester and summer, and now we're back to being just as close as ever. the best thing to do is remember you're not alone, chill with some other people, and hang out with her whenever she's willing to make time for you.

Thanks! I'll keep this in mind. =)

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 28, 2009 7:04 pm


Friends come first!
PostPosted: Tue Dec 29, 2009 8:32 am


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Friends come first!

Yes! I agree!

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 29, 2009 9:01 am


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Friends come first!

Yes! I agree!

I've been trying to tell her that. -.-;;
Boyfriends come and go, friends are forever.
PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 12:34 pm


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The Phantoms Apprentice
Friends come first!

Yes! I agree!

I've been trying to tell her that. -.-;;
Boyfriends come and go, friends are forever.

you are totaly right

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 5:55 pm


The Phantoms Apprentice
XxMusic Is My TalentxX
XxSunny BunnyxX
The Phantoms Apprentice
Friends come first!

Yes! I agree!

I've been trying to tell her that. -.-;;
Boyfriends come and go, friends are forever.

you are totaly right

Ditto. But serisouly, what have you done so far, from when you first posted this? Ya know what I mean.
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