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Posted: Mon Dec 14, 2009 8:01 pm
urgh im so confuzeld D; i dont know what i should call myself. i am a girl who feels like a boy inside. i dont know what i should call myself..? gay? bi? lezbian? urgh im so confused ><
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Posted: Tue Dec 15, 2009 8:21 am
IT DOESN"T MATTER!!!! seriously, you shouldn't put so much pressure on yourself for what your sexual prefference is or wether you feel your more one way or another, and any one who says you should or says its wrong to be what ever you are is just so.... BLAH!!! Do not worry about it... Are you any less human for what you feel? no Are you any less yourself for what you feel? No Are you going to mutate into some vial monster for feeling the way you feel? PROBABLY NOT!
so if you want to call yourself something just call yourself you.
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Posted: Tue Dec 15, 2009 9:35 am
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Posted: Wed Dec 16, 2009 11:47 pm
yeah if it helps I never think I am gay or bi. I just do not classify myself. Some days I catch my self thinking and im always like:
"Wow, I am gay" "I am with a guy" I forget how it feels to be with a girl"
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Posted: Sun Dec 20, 2009 6:33 pm
I wouldnt bother with the classifications...but I know what it feels like to be so confused. I consider myself something of a 'gay' person because there is generally only 2% of the opposite sex that I actually like. But it is because i like that 2% that I could say that I am Bi.
So really...titles dont matter. If you are with someone of the same sex at the time, call yourself gay. If not, call yourself Bi. If you would think it would be better not to have a title...then don't give yourself a title. Simple as that.
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Posted: Sun Dec 20, 2009 6:42 pm
I do not worry about classifications. They really do nothing.
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Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2009 1:15 pm
Don't label yourself. You'll end up hating it. I just label myself as bi 'cause i'm attracted to both genders. But unless you get a sex change then you'd be a "transvestite" which isn't even that bad. People blow it out of proportion =/
For now you can say you're bi, but only if you have an attraction to both genders
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Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2009 1:34 pm
If you feel the need to label yourself, it sounds like you're transgender. I call myself "Queer" because I don't know yet, but I know it isn't the norm. Just roll with it, it doesn't matter either way.
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Posted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 11:27 am
I know how you feel but if your confused on your sexuality and you don't know what to do just don't label yourself. I quite often wish I was a guy but since I was born this way I just know I'll have to make it through this way.
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