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How'd you come out?

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Posted: Sat Dec 05, 2009 9:08 pm

This is a thread to talk about how you came out and stuff, everyone's got a story.

HAVE FUN!!

I told my dad after telling everyone else first... he said he'd "love me no matter what". Apparently, words are different than actions, because he doesn't show this with how he constantly ignores this side of me and pretends it isn't there.

I don't really feel the urge to tell him anything, ever, anymore.

I'll just omit the entire coming out process in the military and just instead replace it with this image...

gore

That accurately describes the experience... vastly unpleasant.

Posted: Sat Dec 05, 2009 9:30 pm

I haven't. I could but I'm waiting till I'm aged.
But I'll come out to my friend in the Summer.
Since I normally walk home with him I'll just tell him it as we're walking.

"So yeah, I'm bi."

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Posted: Sat Dec 05, 2009 10:22 pm

God, I don't even know.

I just open my mouth and words fall out, so during the gradual realization I just kinda told people.

Oh right, the first b***h I told (and asked not to tell anyone) went and told her mom (huge gossip) who then told everybody. Not that I care, it's more hurt because she told her mom how nervous she was around me, like I would actually like that c**t. And the fact that the b***h told people who had no business knowing.

That really pissed me off, I really enjoy entertaining the daydream of punching her in the face the next time I see her.

Posted: Sun Dec 06, 2009 3:52 pm

On my myspace I had my orientation as "Bi", and my oldest brother (10, sometimes 11 years older than I) told my mom, who asked me about it. (This was when I was 14.) She asked me, I answered, end of story.

Three years later, it comes up again betwix mother dearest and I. She doesn't care.

Dad, on the other hand, asked me himself. Apparently I'm just SO comfortable around girls, and I never hang out with guys, so this is how it went:

"So, I've noticed you've joined a lot of equal opportunity groups of Facebook."
"Yup."
"Are you... you know... *Makes a kind of hand gesture*"
"Gay?"
"..Leaning that way?"
"Actually I don't care about gender."
"Oh. Okay."

Long story short, it's my decision and he'll respect it. He has several gay friends -- some flaming -- that he respects quite a bit, and he says although he doesn't think it's right he doesn't believe in bashing someone just because of who they choose to like. He doesn't treat me differently at all.

So go dad. I hate the guy, but he won some kudo points there.

Apparently he's wondered about ALL his sons. xd

Brothers don't know, no one else but two members of my very extensive family know, and most of my friends know but don't care.

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Posted: Mon Dec 07, 2009 7:32 am

BlooCow

I haven't. I could but I'm waiting till I'm aged.
But I'll come out to my friend in the Summer.
Since I normally walk home with him I'll just tell him it as we're walking.

"So yeah, I'm bi."

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I need to create a web-response with my pic and flash saying "cool story, bro" to everything and anything... until I am chastised from gaia altogether.

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