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jokerelf474
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PostPosted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 7:00 pm


I am not getting enough attention from . . . who else . . . My Boyfriend.

I spent the whole week before Halloween working on making a hell yeah sexy costume.
He did not like it. Cause it was a sexy slutie peter pan.

Before, when we weren't dating, I tried dressing up cute one day to try and impress him.
My friend stated "Oh hey! Chad is looking really cute today? isn't he?"

Well, he says little things . . .Sometimes . . . but not enough times.

A simple you look cute today would really make me happy

So what do you say?

Discuss
PostPosted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 7:04 pm


jokerelf474
I am not getting enough attention from . . . who else . . . My Boyfriend.

I spent the whole week before Halloween working on making a hell yeah sexy costume.
He did not like it. Cause it was a sexy slutie peter pan.

Before, when we weren't dating, I tried dressing up cute one day to try and impress him.
My friend stated "Oh hey! Chad is looking really cute today? isn't he?"

Well, he says little things . . .Sometimes . . . but not enough times.

A simple you look cute today would really make me happy

So what do you say?

Discuss


Have u tried talking to him about how you feel and all?

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PostPosted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 7:20 pm


umm maybe he likes your personality better then how you look or he's just a little shy and doesn't want to confront your cuteness :3
PostPosted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 8:29 pm


Bane :Well, I find it impossible for me to talk to him. I just can not get myself to do it. I think I love him to much to talk to him about the things that he does not do and the things I wish he would do.

Crimson: It could be that. But I think a lot of it deals with his personal issues with PDA

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PostPosted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 8:40 pm


Well THERE is your biggest issue. If you don't talk to him about it then he won't know. No communication in a relationship is not a good relationship at all.
PostPosted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 9:05 pm


I know communication is the KEY! but like we really do have a great relationship. I really do need to just talk to him and tell him

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PostPosted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 9:05 pm


jokerelf474
I know communication is the KEY! but like we really do have a great relationship. I really do need to just talk to him and tell him


Indeed u do
PostPosted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 9:12 pm


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jokerelf474
I know communication is the KEY! but like we really do have a great relationship. I really do need to just talk to him and tell him


Indeed u do


I do but recently I have been speaking up more. I really wish he would get over his PDA issues. Last year was so different. He use to not care so much about what other people think

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 05, 2009 12:20 pm


So, PDA wasn't such a problem a while ago.... and it is now?

I can't say I know anything about your relationship, but in my experience the withdrawl of attention and PDA is either: A. The other person has become so comfortable, those things get overlooked. or B. detatchment.
PostPosted: Sat Dec 05, 2009 10:58 pm


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So, PDA wasn't such a problem a while ago.... and it is now?

I can't say I know anything about your relationship, but in my experience the withdrawl of attention and PDA is either: A. The other person has become so comfortable, those things get overlooked. or B. detatchment.


Actually it more becausee we are two gay males in a small town that is so judge mental.

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 06, 2009 9:24 am


Ahhhh I see. I didn't even think of the small town angle.

It's probably just fear of being beaten and s**t for being different.
PostPosted: Sat Dec 12, 2009 1:09 am


yes he does have that fear. I too have it just not as bad.

OH YES! I finally spoke to him about it. He said he can lighten up. So far he has. These last few weeks have been amazing.

I have felt totally in-love with him AGAIN ! ! !

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 12, 2009 6:40 am


If a guy doesnt notice when you lloke cute give him the boot and tell him to cry you out smile
PostPosted: Sat Dec 12, 2009 10:17 am


Lol

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jokerelf474
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 15, 2009 4:29 pm


Things have totally changed since i told him and since he said he will lighten up. He is so amazing and everything is going great.
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