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 Posted: Sun Nov 22, 2009 3:15 pm
I have been betrayed by someone who I thought was my friend. I try to talk to him about feelings that I have for this girl, telling him all about how her mom doesn't know she is bisexual, but that I would be willing to do whatever it takes to be with her. And what does he do? Starts talking crap about me to my face. Just a few things he said were, "your bisexual, you keep getting hurt by people who dont even care about you, your always depressed and complaining and like i said you always like someone who really never cares about you and only uses you for cyber sex" and "hahahaha i dont really no who you are hahaha like anyone would want to know the real you anyway". I thought I could trust him. I helped him accept the fact that HE is bisexual. I have been deeply hurt.
I AM bisexual. I HAVE been hurt by people who don't care about me. I HAVE been used by people before. But to say that I am a terrible person who no one should care about is sick and wrong. I can be a great person when I want to show it, and the fact that he doesn't see that just proves to me that we were never real friends to begin with...
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Posted: Sun Nov 22, 2009 6:29 pm
wow, that's pretty messed up. i had...well, i can't exactly say it's like this, but i'll use my experience to help you out.
figure out why he's saying that. does he honestly think bad things about you? try talking to him. if he refuses to talk to you to your face, he's not your friend. if all he can do is talk crap, tell him about his faults and maybe he'll shut up after learning how much it hurts. if he doesn't shut up though, and just gets meaner, then he's not worth it.
anyone who treats you like that isn't your friend. it doesn't matter how long you've known him or how close you are, if he's being a hypocritical jerk for absolutely no reason, then the clear answer is that he's not worth your friendship.
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Posted: Sun Nov 22, 2009 7:23 pm
the_forgotten_thought wow, that's pretty messed up. i had...well, i can't exactly say it's like this, but i'll use my experience to help you out. figure out why he's saying that. does he honestly think bad things about you? try talking to him. if he refuses to talk to you to your face, he's not your friend. if all he can do is talk crap, tell him about his faults and maybe he'll shut up after learning how much it hurts. if he doesn't shut up though, and just gets meaner, then he's not worth it. anyone who treats you like that isn't your friend. it doesn't matter how long you've known him or how close you are, if he's being a hypocritical jerk for absolutely no reason, then the clear answer is that he's not worth your friendship. What the_forgotten_thought says. If he's a jerk and a hypocrite, then just break it off. Friends never say that to another. Friends are supposed to help, not make you feel bad.
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Posted: Sun Nov 22, 2009 11:03 pm
abnormalchicksta666 I have been betrayed by someone who I thought was my friend. I try to talk to him about feelings that I have for this girl, telling him all about how her mom doesn't know she is bisexual, but that I would be willing to do whatever it takes to be with her. And what does he do? Starts talking crap about me to my face. Just a few things he said were, "your bisexual, you keep getting hurt by people who dont even care about you, your always depressed and complaining and like i said you always like someone who really never cares about you and only uses you for cyber sex" and "hahahaha i dont really no who you are hahaha like anyone would want to know the real you anyway". I thought I could trust him. I helped him accept the fact that HE is bisexual. I have been deeply hurt. I AM bisexual. I HAVE been hurt by people who don't care about me. I HAVE been used by people before. But to say that I am a terrible person who no one should care about is sick and wrong. I can be a great person when I want to show it, and the fact that he doesn't see that just proves to me that we were never real friends to begin with... He's an a*****e who doesn't deserve to be friends with you. Don't try and work it out, don't even talk to him. He doesn't deserve your time or your patience, and he's already wasted both.
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Heavy_m3tal_hippy Vice Captain
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The Phantoms Apprentice Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 12:26 pm
frinds dont do s**t like that drop him
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