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 Posted: Mon Oct 26, 2009 8:22 pm
that is desperately in love with me.
I mean, I like her a lot, but not as much as she likes me. Not even close.
Ok Example
1 The fact that I'm in Utah and she's in Texas brings her to tears.
2 She SAYS that she loves me, and means it
3 I could shatter her heart if i ever wanted to.
But I don't want to shatter her heart. I do care about her, but I'm not sure I want to spend the rest life with her (aka marriage, and yes, the subject came up crying )
So discuss
1 stalkers
2 one-sided relationships
3 WHAT THE F SHOULD I DO!?!!?!?
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Posted: Tue Oct 27, 2009 6:46 am
My first question would be, how old are you both.
(Mainly because I have not looked at your profile to see if it is posted.)
Secondly, how long has this relationship been going on?
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Posted: Tue Oct 27, 2009 6:49 am
I'm 18 and she turned 19 today.
we've been friends since 9th grade, and we started dating junior year
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Posted: Tue Oct 27, 2009 11:33 pm
If she is this infatuated with you, no matter how you tell her this- she will be hurt. It is best that you do it as soon as possible, and as gently as possible. You shouldn't let it drag on, especially if you are not sure what you want in life. Explain that to her, and let her know that you are just not sure what you want in life. She doesn't sound like a stalker to me- this sounds like an online romance and someone is just really clingy. Being the ages you are- it is perfectly fine to feel the way you do... and most likely really normal for her to be super infatuated with you. It is like when you tell a 15 year old you love them... they will believe anything.
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Posted: Wed Oct 28, 2009 1:44 pm
It's true, I did let it go too long, but that was before I realized just how into me she was. I think i got it sorted out. Well sort of. I hate breaking hearts through the internet crying . Couture Debonair
It is like when you tell a 15 year old you love them... they will believe anything.
And you know this from experience?
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Posted: Thu Oct 29, 2009 10:06 am
Heh, no. I have a cousin who is 15 and thinks her world is crashing down because the boy that told her he loved her broke up with her to go out with another girl. So, that is what I thought of.
As long as you have it all worked out. Good luck.
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Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:36 pm
Thanks for the advice 3nodding
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