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 Posted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 8:17 pm
I honostly, think i need help, even if i don't yet know you all. I've never told anyone outside the internet about my orientation, above that, i'm confused! i say i'm bi, seeing as how i've crushed on girls and guys, but i seem to be aiming more towards guys. I don't know how to handle this, as it's entirely new to me. so i was hoping that sending this confession could help get some attention and some good advice.
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Posted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 8:53 pm
Anthonyjack311 I honostly, think i need help, even if i don't yet know you all. I've never told anyone outside the internet about my orientation, above that, i'm confused! i say i'm bi, seeing as how i've crushed on girls and guys, but i seem to be aiming more towards guys. I don't know how to handle this, as it's entirely new to me. so i was hoping that sending this confession could help get some attention and some good advice. I don't really know how to handle this. I wasn't confused at all when I knew I was bi. Sorry. :/
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Posted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 9:51 pm
Honestly it's all going to be confusing at first, but let things run their course, things will eventually become clearer and things will make a lot more sense.
Try and talk to someone about how you feel, explain your feelings. Sometimes just talking about it can help out so much,
you can even talk to me if you want, just send me a PM.
I know I'm not helping much, but I can always try. :]
-Kimberly.
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Posted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 5:52 am
Thanks for the advice, i'll try to find someone i can talk to in rl first since it might affect me a little more.
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The Phantoms Apprentice Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 9:42 am
Well I am BI and I lean more towards girls but i would love to be with an attractive man. So just kinda give it time. If you slowly loose interest in females u might be gay and that is nothing to beashamed of. Be proud of who you are. smile I know after battling my inner demons i am
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Posted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 1:34 pm
Whoa, as soon as I read this, "Pull the String" by Jonathan Coulton started playing... it almost totally relates to your post! xd Sorry, not helpful... listen to it, it will make you happy, however.
When I started being bi, I turned to music. I picked up my bass, dusted it off, and starting making all sorts of sick riffs. I got my mind clear, and then I had space to think.
I also read Hitchiker's Guide to the Galaxy. It's chock full of good life living quotes.
If you start liking guys, then you like guys. Don't worry bout it, bro. Let nature take it's course. Take some time to find yourself, but think deeply about it. You have plenty of time to live your life the way you want to. But don't spend all of it worrying.
Then comes the talking part... if you can't talk to anyone, write it down. Or learn guitar, bottle your emotions, and write badass songs later in life.
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Heavy_m3tal_hippy Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 7:11 pm
ha! that last remark was funny. I'm going to learn the acoustic guitar before i learn any others. It should be somewhat simple since i played a viola, but the two are so different. you all seem to have really good advice, and i know i'll apply it soon, whenever i find the right time.
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Posted: Wed Oct 21, 2009 6:10 pm
Anthonyjack311 ha! that last remark was funny. I'm going to learn the acoustic guitar before i learn any others. It should be somewhat simple since i played a viola, but the two are so different. you all seem to have really good advice, and i know i'll apply it soon, whenever i find the right time. I'm good at those... xd
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Heavy_m3tal_hippy Vice Captain
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The Phantoms Apprentice Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Oct 21, 2009 6:26 pm
Anthonyjack311 ha! that last remark was funny. I'm going to learn the acoustic guitar before i learn any others. It should be somewhat simple since i played a viola, but the two are so different. you all seem to have really good advice, and i know i'll apply it soon, whenever i find the right time. good luck!
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Posted: Sun Oct 25, 2009 7:26 pm
hey, don't worry about liking guys more than girls or whatever other confusing things might come with the worry of orientation. it's confused me FOREVER. but just keep in mind, we all have preferences, so you might be bi but like guys a lil more. or you might be gay and just find girls pretty. don't stress too much over it, though, cuz labels and orientations mean nothing as long as you find love in the end.
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