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 Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 12:55 pm
So for starters, I was never a strong supporter of online relationships. I think they are painful and difficult to be in. But somehow I was able to start a conversation with someone over some stupid myspace profile. And we became friends, slowly. Eventually I started to tell him everything about my mental unstabilty and everything else. And he helped me, a lot. we became friends on a personal level. He probably knows a lot more about me then anyone else I know. And after awhile, I started to like him. And I still do. But...
The thing is. He lives all the way in California. At the time, I lived in New York. And right now... although we might be closer to eachother, because I live in Delaware now, the likeliness of us ever meeting eachother is very slim.
I have one friend and one friend only and she is one of the only people who knows about him. And for a small time she was supportive. But then I told her how I kind of just want to break everything off. And she agrees that I should.
The reason why I want to break things off is because he practically knows how I feel for him, I think. Because there was a night when I was extremely drunk. I don't know what I said. But it couldn't have been good. I like him but I don't want to ******** up our friendship.
So what I need advice on is this:
Should I try to tell him? Should I keep this to myself? Or should I just break or friendship off completely?
I'm terrified of confrontation. But if he already practically knows, then should I just tell him?
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Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 5:35 pm
Just do what you think is right. You should tell him, and not just break off the friendship, but if you think it is right, then do it. I wish I could be more of a help. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 6:11 pm
I think that you should tell him you are not into online relationships,but still want to be friends! Tell him there is a small chance you could ever meet him! Hope this helps =)
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Posted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 3:15 pm
Thank you guys, thank you all so much for caring enough to give some form advice. I've decided that I will just keep this to myself. And that I won't break things off completely, but I will try to just get over this. I know I can do it because all I ever did was look at the good in our friendship and not the bad. I never looked for the things I didn't like about him. And while there isn't much I don't like about him, there are a few reasons that I know in the ending--if It did work out. I'd be absolutely crushed. My friend told me its time to forgive myself for letting him in and forget that we even knew eachother.
Like I said, not breaking things off completly. But our friendship won't be full. I've decided I'll just keep it at a;
"Hows the weather?"
Type of friendship.
Thanks all of you guys, yet again heart
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