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 Posted: Sat Oct 17, 2009 3:18 pm
Always one of those questions people love to ask.
I like to ask as it gives me a deeper look into people.
I'll start though.
I was 13 when I realized I liked girls. 14 when I came out though and I only did because my best friend, who I really, really liked, asked me if I liked girls. (I already knew she was Bisexual) I said yes, and then she asked me out. My response was probably the best though "really? Are you serious?" She said yes, and then I said yes, and since then we have been together.
The next day after we decided to start dating we told our friends, which happened to be April Fools day, so they didn't believe us until the next day when we told them again.
Now don't get me wrong, it's been almost 6 years but we've been through a lot. I mean when we came out to our parents... mainly mine, my parents were downright rude. I was kicked out of the house for 2 days, and then my mom told my gf's parents about her and I. Even though my gf wanted to tell them herself. It was a very bitchy thing of my mom back then.
Even now she doesn't fully accept me and my family on either side doesn't recognize our relationship as being serious, neither does her dad's side of the family.
So anyways, any good coming out stories? Relationship mishaps?
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Posted: Sat Oct 17, 2009 3:41 pm
I was fourteen when I realized that I was bisexual, though I wasn't completely sure about it. I started asking people what they would do If i went bisexual because I was scared to death of loosing all my friends. Luckily most people said they would accept me still even if it was a little weird. I haven't yet told my parents but I have told my friends. I have dated 2 girls so far but neither relationship has worked out. I am currently seriously dating a boy.
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Posted: Sat Oct 17, 2009 5:21 pm
I was raised by my lesbian aunt so it never occurred to me that it was strange or different. So in a sense I've always been 'cause I was always attracted to girls and guys. But I still haven't come out. I know that might sound stupid and ridiculous. I've come out to my friends but not my family. I want to make sure and I mean with a girlfriend and happy and serious I would come out to my family.
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Posted: Sat Oct 17, 2009 5:36 pm
let's see. when i came out to my mom, she refused to talk to me for a few days. then she "told on me" to my dad cuz she thought i only said it cuz we were having an arguement. then my mom, dad, and i had a very long and annoying discussion cuz i didn't wanna go to church when i had rude preists talking constantly about how evil and wrong gays are. then i was forced to a weekend "jesusfest" with my church's youth group. then my mom and i had a huge fight a few months later. and now (about a year and a half later) she's finally getting used to saying the word "gay" around me. however, still can't say lesbian, girlfriend, etc. slow steps in the right direction, though.
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The Phantoms Apprentice Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Oct 17, 2009 10:08 pm
Alright well when I was 13 I had a crush on a guy who i knew was bi and h was always flirting with me and idk why cause my self esteem is nonexistent. So I asked him if he liked me and he said yes!? He was so cute! I dated him for about three months and came out that way. Everyone was shocked whenthey saw me make out with him in the band room in front of everyone. And then my dad found out. That was HELL! He thougth it was a phase and that i would come out of it in time. Well I am now 18and still drooling over the hot guys who work at hot topic. haha ok well yeah thats my story
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Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 9:48 am
I haven't really come out to my parents but to parts of my family, and most of my friends.
I came out to the first of my friends in 6th grade, Cassie and Garrett(Snowball96). Cassie was okay with it because she was bisexual at the time, now transsexual. Garrett, though, was sort of disgusted. -.-"
Then in the middle of 7th grade, I came out to my best friend, Lily(xXNight TigerXx). She was sort of uncomfortable at the time, but now, she fully accepts me and even gives me advice.
A few months after I told her, I came out to the girls in this club called Girls For Change. 3 of them also came out, saying they were also bi(wow =3).
The day after school was out, I sent a text message to every one on my contact list asking them if they would mind my being bi. No one cared. By now, the word is probably spread.
A few weeks later, my brothers, all 3 of them, saw my myspace profile status, "I'm bi. Who cares?" They questioned if that was true. I said yes. They were uncomfortable, but now it's all good. My sister in law also knows and teases me. I know she means it playfully, and I don't find anything rude about it. She's like the sister I have never had. =)
I don't know when I told my niece, Marisol, but she knows. My sister in laws daughter knows. I also told my other niece, Gaby. She okay with it. And I suppose my sister, Carolina, knows too.
And that's about it. =)
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Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 10:11 am
well lets see ... I was 9 when I first started drooling after 16/20 year old girls in magazines xD ... but I didn't really know why exactly so I didn't really believe that I was bi. and last year I met a girl in a music forum ... she asked me for my skype and since then we're always chatting ... this august we met at the beach ( cuz we live in different cities ) ... I was falling for her since a few months but tried to get over it cuz she would never like someone like me and besides she has lots of cool friends to choose from ... the first person I told was her cuz we're big fans of Miyavi especially his fanservice and once in a chat she told me that she wanted a kiss like his on stage I was like WTF ?!!! and then told her I was bi ... good thing was she also came out =D ... so when we met we kissed ... ( by the seaside ... full moon ... stars xD ) ... so then I decided not to give up on her and I'll tell her the next time we meet ... I told my mom at my birthday this year and I also told her that I like that girl but she didn't believe me >.> ... anyway I've already told all of my friends and they're totally ok with it 3nodding even one of 'em is bi too xD ... so that's pretty much it
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Posted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 5:35 pm
Aha, well, honestly, I realized I liked girls back in 5th grade, but the more I thought about it, the younger I was when I started liking girls, like 2nd grade young! I came out after a friend of mine did, because I figured, if she could do it, it's not that hard is it? When I told her she said "I always knew there was something different about you." Aha, she's like my big sister! :] Anyways, so people around school slowly started figuring it out, and I surprisingly didn't have many people give me crap about it. Of course, no one ever really talked to me other than my close friends and they were all cool with it.
Anyways, when I told my mom, I didn't even mean to, I was asking her a question about homosexuals and she asked me, "Why do you care so much?" and then I told her not really realizing I did.... I was like "crap!" then she started crying and I thought she hated me or something after that, but she was crying because she was happy that I told her, and she told me that she was proud of me for being who I am. I love my mom to death!
Now my whole family knows, and no one hates me for it that I know of so far.
Now, there's my 'dad' [well, he's not really my dad. I used to call him that because I grew up around him when I was in foster care and used to be married to my mom. [who adopted me, he didn't adopt me.]] Anyways, I don't call him 'dad' anymore, I call him by his name, and I hate that man. He told my brother I needed to see a councilor and the councilor would make me straight again [except he said it way worse. I'm keeping it G rated.], and my brother told me. So when I asked David ['dad'] he completely lied to me and tried bribing me to get to love him again, but I have honestly hated him ever since, he lied about that and he still keeps lying to me today. I'm sick of it.
I'm glad I don't have a dad at all honestly.
-Kimberly.
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Heavy_m3tal_hippy Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 7:55 pm
I've only been bi for about 2 years now. I came out to my friends, and not at all to my parents. I would, but the thing is, I don't really think it's any of their business. They're not really involved in my life. Don't get me wrong though, my parents aren't horrid people, they just leave me alone, which is good for me xd
I may eventually tell them, but currently, I don't think they could care less. But if you don't feel like telling your parents, it is not the biggest issue in the world. Unless your parents are prejudice assholes, of course, then you show them that their ignorance is a megalo-fail
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Posted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 9:26 pm
I came out to my sister, a year ago. She supported me so much.
I literally hated all the boys at my school. They are gross and disgusting and just plain eww. The girls on the other hand are sweeter. =)
I came out to our group of friends a month ago. My sister had told her best friend, and she was fine with it. Both of them encouraged me to tell the group. So I told them. They were really supportive. =D
I am so not telling mom and dad, because 1) it's none of their beeswax. Period.
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Posted: Wed Oct 21, 2009 7:02 am
I came out as bisexual since I wasn't sure what I wanted.I was only 11 years old. I dated this girl named Cindy and I fell madly in love with her and still have feelings for her today...I realized I was a Lesbian due to the fact that I never had such feelings for any guy who I attempted to date. I came out to my best friend who is still my best friend who gave me the idea to rejoin Gaia since I lost my old account.
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Posted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 8:01 pm
I came out in my skewl (kinda a big mistake since i live in a damn hick state and im in a small a** skewl of no more then 23+ kidz i think er more) i came out thinking that this boy who was uuubeeeer Cute HIs name was Scott he was a skater boy kinda short 4" 5' i was 5" on the dot but he had long blonde hair nd the cutest baby face but i didnt really say who i liked and every1 just started asking me who in the class i liked (of course they chose all boys names and when they said his name i was drinkin a chocolate milk (it was lunch time we all had to eat in the damn classroom we got kicked out cause some kids in my skewl got into a fight) and they said a few other boys names and i shook my head no to each one of teh names when they said "how Bout Scott" i stopped drinking my milk and very litely blushed and stopped breathing nd didnt say nything (Turns out he wasnt bi but i didnt kare i still liked him) cause he said "oh god. . ." he moved at the end of the school year (*sigh* i still miss him he was adorable) eh this year i just told them i went straight of course i lied but i said it to shut them the hell up it started 2 annoy me nd this year my gf cheated on me nd i broke up wit her now im lookin 4 a bf nd soon i may have 1 *yay* (Ps. Im Uke oh nd feel free to search that up)
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The Phantoms Apprentice Vice Captain
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Posted: Fri Oct 23, 2009 5:48 pm
Cloud_Murasama I came out in my skewl (kinda a big mistake since i live in a damn hick state and im in a small a** skewl of no more then 23+ kidz i think er more) i came out thinking that this boy who was uuubeeeer Cute HIs name was Scott he was a skater boy kinda short 4" 5' i was 5" on the dot but he had long blonde hair nd the cutest baby face but i didnt really say who i liked and every1 just started asking me who in the class i liked (of course they chose all boys names and when they said his name i was drinkin a chocolate milk (it was lunch time we all had to eat in the damn classroom we got kicked out cause some kids in my skewl got into a fight) and they said a few other boys names and i shook my head no to each one of teh names when they said "how Bout Scott" i stopped drinking my milk and very litely blushed and stopped breathing nd didnt say nything (Turns out he wasnt bi but i didnt kare i still liked him) cause he said "oh god. . ." he moved at the end of the school year (*sigh* i still miss him he was adorable) eh this year i just told them i went straight of course i lied but i said it to shut them the hell up it started 2 annoy me nd this year my gf cheated on me nd i broke up wit her now im lookin 4 a bf nd soon i may have 1 *yay* (Ps. Im Uke oh nd feel free to search that up) It is so cute when gay people fall for straight people
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Posted: Sat Oct 24, 2009 10:10 am
Jiyou I was raised by my lesbian aunt so it never occurred to me that it was strange or different. So in a sense I've always been 'cause I was always attracted to girls and guys. But I still haven't come out. I know that might sound stupid and ridiculous. I've come out to my friends but not my family. I want to make sure and I mean with a girlfriend and happy and serious I would come out to my family. Well, at least you know someone in your family that's homosexual. It sucks for me because I'm the only homosexual person in my family. -.-"
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