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 Posted: Sat Oct 17, 2009 2:13 pm
This is it, I have no one left to turn too, not even my boyfriend/ best friend.
It all started the day my best friend confessed he liked me back. There was a friend of ours that liked him back, and she hated that i got with him even though he told me she was always just a friend and that's all he ever saw her as. Soon after he and I got together she posted something in the forums calling me a backstabber and some other junk, she didn't use my name so she told a mutual friend of ours it wasn't about me and the mutual friend believed her. I try not to look at her at school but she goes and tells the mutual friend that i am always glaring at her. And then there's my boyfriends cheating ex. She is always staring at him and we have theatre together, so when i do nice things like open the door to the auditorium door for her she pulls it open really fast so i nearly fall, and then she tells the mutual friend i talk crud about her, I just want them to leave me alone but the mutual friend thinks im causing all the trouble! Then there's my bf, he still talks to the girl who trash talked me and even does things for her sometimes, I told him how much it hurts me to see him treat her so nicely when she treats me like crap. Now the girl is starting to act like the good guy and i can't confide in anybody, not even my bf because he's getting frustrated by all the fighting between he and i because i can't like his friendship with her. He should be friends with whoever he wants and i acknowledge that, but i still feel a little betrayed inside and needed to let it out. I feel like such a horrible person inside, im selfish, angry, hurtful, and make everyones' life miserable, everyone would be better off without me.
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Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 9:32 pm
First, Welcome to life as a Woman. lol
Second, Wow what drama.
I'd just stay away from them ALL for awhile. Get yourself immersed into something; Art, Music, Schoolwork, or whatever makes you tick.
Also write in a journal about it as sometimes you'll find your own answers there. It's too bad the others are talking behind your back. You should just know what the truth is and if anyone chooses to believe it without knowing you or asking you about it then they are an immature idiot.
The important things for you young people to know is, that in the BIG PICTURE of life this is a very insigificant event and will pass quickly.
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Posted: Wed Nov 04, 2009 12:27 pm
Yeah,
I agree with the person above me.
Get a Journal to write out your feelings, it works out for me just fine when I need to get something off my chest and no one is willing to listen.
You also shouldn't be talking to them if they cause you that much stress in your life.
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