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Doc Dillamond
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:40 pm


what are some of your comming out stories. how did it go? do you have any regrets?

i came out to my mom first thing because we are pretty close. she is fine with it. she is very accepting.  
PostPosted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 4:22 am


with me it first was to my friends and they where allready kind of into wicca so they understand it and my parents werant mad at me or anything they didnt even think it was weird but they were christian but they didnt want me and my sister to be christian smile so im kind of lucky i think razz

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 2:18 pm


Same for me. It's just me and my mom and even though we aren't THAT close, she doesn't care as long as I'm not doing anything evil or trying to force my religion on others. She's is interested in some things about it but doesn't want to become wiccan.
And most of my freinds are wiccan or are very suppostive and or interested in it.
PostPosted: Sat Oct 24, 2009 10:42 pm


LadyWolf_MoonFire

And most of my freinds are wiccan or are very suppostive and or interested in it.


i wish i had more wiccan friends. i have one. and anotherone is intrested but thats it really. crying

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 27, 2009 12:27 pm


Mmmm to be honest I have no coming out story as I am from a family of Pagans.
The closest I can come to that is reveiling it to some friends throughout my life.
But, that is about it.
It's never really been to hard or harsh on me as I know it has been for some of my friends. Luckily most of my imediate and dear friends I have grown up with and known throught family Pagan ties/connections. So they were never a real concern.
Some of my non-craft friends have rejected me for telling them later on in life.
But thats natural.
PostPosted: Tue Nov 24, 2009 9:38 am


To my friends it was really easy because they already kinda knew it but when my grandma heard she wasnt very accepting. She thought the worst of me because she didnt know the truth of it so i asked her to sit down and actually talk with me and after that she started to understand a little so i guess it wasnt so bad.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 26, 2009 9:46 pm


Telling my friends was easy, but when it came to parents I hesitated so I just let them figure it out themselves. I wan't sure(and still not at all) if I grew up in a ethiast or cathlic family since none of them even my sister ever talked about religious beliefs. The only time that I can remember was when my dad said he didn't believe in God. It burnt into my mind and it still rings and shrieks in my head and I was 4 at the time. I chose not to believe my dad's religious expression and continued on with my beliefs. Then I came across an icon in the shape of a star and )O( and soon became interested. I studied, but did not practiced(cuz of lack of materials and money). When I told my friends they were surprized, but acceptable. Two was strict Christian/Cathlic, two ethiasts, and others(I was unable to figure out what religion they were). As soon as I told them they became more interested in wicca even though they knew so little of it. I felt like I forced it even though I hardly said a thing to them. I got over it evenually. One of my Christian friends asked me about it so I explained, but her strict Christianity got in the away and told me her beliefs. She got over it and accepted my beliefs and kept her's. Now one of my friends is very interested and she's Cathlic. I didn't feel like I was forcing so I told her what I remember in my studies.

I don't have any regrets through out the time. Nothing happened that seemed like a bad thing. My mom accepted it, but doesn't really give a damn. She doesn't support me for anything except school. My dad has yet to figure it out. In 8th grade I was almost close to having a wiccan friend at my school, but she seemed to have something against me. I don't know why and she's a year younger than me. I'll ask her next year. Still no regrets, but still fear judgement. I don't judge others so why should they. If anyone disagrees with that comment tell me in PM or PC(profile comment(just to be sure)).
PostPosted: Thu Dec 31, 2009 10:54 pm


Well actually i havnt told my parents yet. They dont exactly see me as mature or responsible, and i doubt they would let me make a life choice like that seeing that im only 15. so i will wait till im an adult to tell them, and it will also give me more time to think about the choice of converting as well.

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 01, 2010 5:52 am


The only family member I told willingly was my mom
And that was a regret.
she uses it as a threat now :/

And my aunt knows because she spied on my facebook.
So now she refuses to talk to me.
And she is going to tell everyone...she is a complete gossip, especially with other family members.
My family hate my mom because of her.
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