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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 3:54 pm

so young muslims girls and boys aren't allowed to have boyfriends/girlfriends. if they do they won't go to heaven unless they ask for forgiveness or pray everyday and everytime

Posted: Fri Oct 09, 2009 9:46 pm

...(Lawful to you in marriage) are chaste women from the believers and chaste women from those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) before your time, when you have given their due Mahr (bridal-money given by the husband to his wife at the time of marriage), desiring chastity (i.e. taking them in legal wedlock) not committing illegal sexual intercourse, nor taking them as girlfriends. ...

"Shacking up" brings a curse taken to the grave

Hadith - Sahih Muslim, Narrated AbudDarda'

AbudDarda' related from the Prophet of Allah that he came upon a (slave) woman who was in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent. He said: Perhaps he (the man accompanying her) intends to cohabit with her. They said: Yes. Thereupon Allah's Messenger said: I had decided to curse him with such a curse as may go along with him to his grave. How can he own him (the child to be born) and that is not lawful for him, and how can be take him as a servant for that is not lawful for him?

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Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 2:50 pm

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...(Lawful to you in marriage) are chaste women from the believers and chaste women from those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) before your time, when you have given their due Mahr (bridal-money given by the husband to his wife at the time of marriage), desiring chastity (i.e. taking them in legal wedlock) not committing illegal sexual intercourse, nor taking them as girlfriends. ...

"Shacking up" brings a curse taken to the grave

Hadith - Sahih Muslim, Narrated AbudDarda'

AbudDarda' related from the Prophet of Allah that he came upon a (slave) woman who was in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent. He said: Perhaps he (the man accompanying her) intends to cohabit with her. They said: Yes. Thereupon Allah's Messenger said: I had decided to curse him with such a curse as may go along with him to his grave. How can he own him (the child to be born) and that is not lawful for him, and how can be take him as a servant for that is not lawful for him?

to read the rest of this plz go to this link:
http://muttaqun.com/dating.html

Nice. You came with a hadeeth. VERY nice. 3nodding

Posted: Sat Jul 09, 2011 10:45 pm

Man you guys do your homework

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Posted: Thu Sep 22, 2011 9:19 am

It's not right for us to get boyfriends or girlfriends, not only that it's so discusting too... seriously. And people do loads of bad stuff when they date too

Posted: Fri Nov 11, 2011 4:02 pm

They should surround themselves with righteous people. Also, they need to stop doing the sin, repent to Allah and to never ever commit this sin again. They also need to go and learn their deen...That brother needs to try and make it to the mosque, that sister needs to be at home somewhere learning her deen insh'Allah. They also need to make dua to Allah for guiding them and to stay away from the forbidden.

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Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2012 4:28 am

Indeed 3nodding . Allah forbide us to approach zina. It's impossible for people that have a boyfriend or girlfriend to stay away from Zina.

"And come not near to the unlawful sexual intercourse. Verily, it is a Fahishah (i.e. anything that transgresses its limits (a great sin)), and an evil way" {Al Isra: 32}

People that have a boy/girlfriend usually will do khalwat (arabic language for being just two together in a place) and touch each other whereas Allah forbide that. About khalwat explained in HR. Imam Bukhari and Iman Muslim from Abdullah Ibnu Abbas ra and about the forbiden to touch other than our muhreem (people that didn't have blood relationship with us) is also explained in HR. Bukhari dan Muslim from Aisyah ra. I hope I didn't make a mistake about it, but please look for it again from trusted source.

Posted: Mon Jul 09, 2012 5:22 am

"Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty, that will make for greater purity for them...Say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty...O you believers! Turn you all together towards Allah that you may attain success" [24:30-31]

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