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True Colors is a guild aimed to bring together people of color who just happen to be gay/lesbian/bisexual/etc. 

Tags: LGBT, gays, asian, african, hispanic 

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Xen Dominion

Ruthless Lover

PostPosted: Wed Sep 09, 2009 1:41 pm


in hopes of starting opinions.

while im not fully against it.

I THINK GAY MARRIAGE IS STUPID.
you don't need to be "married" to prove how much you love someone, if you are truly that deep in love you shouldnt need anything at all but the company of your chosen mate, and a place to call home. Im tired of all these queer advocates who want to emulate the str8 mainstream. no offence to any heteros but we are better than that, why consider it "being put down" to have a domestic partnership, it grants you the same rights and makes you deal with the same problems that marriage brings about. children divorce prenuptial agreements etc. marriage is just the word slapped on.

we are not str8, we shouldnt copy str8 culture. we have been different and will always be different until asexuality takes over anyhow, and we all like sex too much for that to happen. if your religious, that's a whole nother subject. we have for the most part been granted the same rights as hetero couples just issued with a different name. while i agree that even in our state the prop 8 campaign was totally discriminatory i personally say, so what. im not being self righteous, i hve an open open mind, i am just curious to hear what your thoughts are.

i never planned on getting married, and if i EVER did. i'd get prenup(holla we want prenu!yeah) i think that i could live a satisfying full happy life with or without someone by my side, though i know not everyone feels the same, "he is my other half" etc. but why are u settling for half a life? become whole, and then go snag that other whole dream man of yours. happy hunting...no on H8.

xen  
PostPosted: Thu Sep 10, 2009 3:19 pm


DIGIMON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and um. i agree with teh whole "marriage" thing. i really don't think the word is such a big deal.


i dont think we are copying the str8 culture...

SpontaniousSteve


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 9:20 pm


Interesting really. The divide between gays for and not for gay marriage. I believe that you are either the first or the second person that I've met not for it.
PostPosted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 9:39 pm


joke: it's called the brian kinney approach (2 pts if you got that)

yeah maybe its just my love outlook, but my boyfriend feels very much the same way. so its not too uncommon. so long as we can be there for our mates when they're sick/deathly ill, we still have adoption rights. and wills are worked accordingly i cant perceive any problem with domestic partnership. if anything, let's score that first and then we can call it whatever we want.

Xen Dominion

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