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 Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 9:12 pm
If you read this, give me advice. That's all I ask.
I have a friend. I've known her for almost six years now, and only now have I started to SEE her for HER. We were kids then. Didn't care for our differences but now we're teenagers. There's conflict and I hate it. When we talk, she tells me about what's hurting her internally and externally. What she's doing like I'm Twitter; don't get me wrong, it doesn't bother me, but what does bother me is another story.
When I do this...it's not right. It's wrong. She laughs about something hilarious. I laugh with her. She's angry about something, I comment about it. When I'm laughing about it. It's weird and not right. When I'm angry about something...I'm complaining. I don't know what to do. When I try to confront her about this...she agrees. Makes it seem like it's all my fault. For example:
"Yeah, you're right and I'm wrong."
"I'm sorry I did such and such"
It's like a mind game to me and I'm very paranoid; maybe it's just that but it hurts my feelings to think she only thinks of me as a last resort friend. I don't know how to talk to her without her accusing me of being upset. I have mature debates all the time, but she just contiuosly accuses me of becoming upset or that everything that had happened was her fault. I want to know what I'm doing wrong or what's wrong with her.
I don't think there's anything wrong, personally, but I'm human and I guess from what I know.
If you can. Please help me.
-Red
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Posted: Sat Oct 17, 2009 2:26 pm
The best thing you can do is just talk things out, but just as fair warning, even when you talk things out, things don't turn out the way you hope it to( i should know)
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