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 Posted: Fri Aug 07, 2009 7:25 am
GIRLS,
do you have a question you'd like to ask a boy? Ask him here!
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Posted: Tue Aug 11, 2009 12:07 pm
i have a question.
girls are weird.
they're dramatic, whiney, bxtchy, talkative, helpless and whore-ish.
they say one thing but mean the other and are clothing-obsessed.
granted, there are some girls who are able to avoid every one of those labels, but what i'm wondering is
why aren't all guys just gay?
or are the straight guys straight only for those few genuine, nice girls they have hopes of meeeting?
why do guys end up "falling in love" with the shallow girls?
i'm just curious. [:
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Posted: Tue Aug 11, 2009 3:30 pm
Some of us, the more decent kind anyhow, like to...find the jewel amidst the mud, if you will. There is something about it, like some sort of permanent binding that cannot be broken. For example, some think that they can be the hero of the story, finding the girl, pulling her from the squaild life she has lead, and in the end she will be bound to him for ever.
But this is a lie, it is all a lie. That, that up there was the best case, sugar coated, senario. The most that it has ever happened sucessfully outside of a stage production is three, maybe four, times.
There are several problems with achiving the desired result. First, not everyone has what it takes to be a hero, to be a Paragon, a bright flame against the encroaching darkness. Second, you have to pick the right girl, or it will never work, and finding someone you can help without being hopeless is harder than you'd think. Third not everyone has the patience, or the money for that matter, for someone to have a major social and emotional epiphany. Forth, she never had an epiphany, she was just in it for the money and as soon as you turn your back there will be a knife in it. All because the man wanted to be a hero, because they wanted to be good men, well you know what? Good men die young, and this is why.
One more thing, not all straight men are good men, in fact, most of them brainless, oafish, pigs that will screw anything that moves. When I talk to a man that is openly gay, I know that I am talking to a good man.
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Posted: Wed Aug 12, 2009 4:26 pm
thanks for answering my question. whee
your elaborate reply is muchly appreciated.
hm, another question to keep everyone occupied?
when do guys finally, if at all, become decent people?
they're just jerks all through middle school and high school,
but do they ever become genuinely kind people? i mean,
aside from the overall nice guys you meet every once or twice
who somehow avoided the whole jackass gene.
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Posted: Wed Aug 12, 2009 6:17 pm
It has to do with how they grew up, usually the nicest ones will be the outcasts, when they aren't being bitter that is. The best way to make a guy a nice person is to videotape him hurting someone and then showing him the video. If he has the capacity to be good he will be very ashamed.
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Posted: Thu Aug 13, 2009 6:47 am
To both girls and guys: Why is it that after a relationship is over, the friendship is over in most cases?
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Posted: Thu Aug 13, 2009 9:26 am
Because usually they either hate each other, or in my case if feels like a needle of fire is being shoved into your heart. Eventually though the burning stops, then only fear is left.
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Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 1:06 pm
A_Trying_Writer To both girls and guys: Why is it that after a relationship is over, the friendship is over in most cases? probably because it's awkward. the couple's probably used to hanging all
over each other and kissing and being couple-ish and all they can do now
is talk. maybe because when someone is dumped, then they feel liek that
person did that because they don't liek them, when possibly it's just because
they didn't love them that way anymore? i don't know. i can't say i'm experienced in this
area because the only guys i've dated were a guy who i'm actually great friends
with now and the other, when we were dating it was akward as it was so i dumped him.
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Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 2:14 pm
Understandable. Both explanations.
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Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 4:36 pm
A_Trying_Writer To both girls and guys: Why is it that after a relationship is over, the friendship is over in most cases? I would say a lot of it stems from not being friends prior to dating so either or neither knows how to act without the dating aspect thrown in. At least that has been my experience. All of the guys that I was friends with prior to dating I am still friends with, even though there was some awkwardness right after things ended. But all of the guys that I was not friends with prior to dating I haven't talked to since the break up.
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Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 4:38 pm
Idiosyncratic Solar thanks for answering my question. whee
your elaborate reply is muchly appreciated.
hm, another question to keep everyone occupied?
when do guys finally, if at all, become decent people?
they're just jerks all through middle school and high school,
but do they ever become genuinely kind people? i mean,
aside from the overall nice guys you meet every once or twice
who somehow avoided the whole jackass gene. Believe it or not I think a lot of it has to do with maturity levels and life experiences. The guys I was friends with in high school were all decent even then but they, like me, had to grow up faster than our contemporaries. I think if guys are raised spoiled with little to no responsibility then that will be reflected in the way they act, the same could be said for girls.
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Posted: Thu Oct 15, 2009 9:45 pm
Shallarinath It has to do with how they grew up, usually the nicest ones will be the outcasts, when they aren't being bitter that is. The best way to make a guy a nice person is to videotape him hurting someone and then showing him the video. If he has the capacity to be good he will be very ashamed. wow that hits the nail on the head.
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