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Well, I am bisexual and I have been out to my friends for about two years. I didn't come out to my family till aprils fools (yup lol). It happened cause of me wanting to go to a gay prom. My mother asked me if i knew that going to a gay prom would mean i would be coming out. I said and . . .so . . . ? She was like WOW! ok then . . .! She got over it and everything is fine. I have even had my boyfriend over to the house a few times. He has even spent the night, but that was only because he ran away to get away from his father and came to me. ( awwwww)


So, there is my basic story. What is yours?

I was perfectly aware for a good deal of time that I was bi, but I wasn't entirely comfortable about it until I was maybe 13-14. Even so, I didn't tell my best friend until I was 16. I took her aside and said I had to tell her something and I explained the situation. Her response was a surprise, but then it really wasn't knowing her; "Oh...I knew that. I thought you had something IMPORTANT to tell me." LMFAO...She's great and I miss the hell out of her.

Now, coming out to my parents was a little different, but not really. I'd always been cool with my mom, but even so I didn't tell her until I was 18 and it was quick, cool and aloof. It was one of those where it came in passing, I wasn't actually explaining it to her. My dad and I never talked about it...My mum pretty much told him and that was that. It was just never a big thing with them, because I KNEW they'd always support my beliefs/feelings/me.

hmmm it was simple really one day i was hanging out with my friends and i was like....omg im so gay! XD they thought i was joking but i was seriouse this was in grade 7 lol i told my parents in grade 9 (last year) cuz i found this guy i liked and i didint want to keep him a secret lol

well.. my story is kinda long so i'mma try to break it down a bit heheh >.<
uhmm.. i didn't really find out that i was bi til i was in 6th grade cuz i had a crush on this girl who i knew since 5th grade n the way we met was.....
in the cafeteria i was standing in line n i saw her n my best friend.. they were just messing around n hitting each other n i was right behind them tryin to mind my own business. my best friend pushed her n she almost fell back n stepped on my foot. luckily it didn't hurt lol. anyways she looked back at me n just stared at me.. i was hoping for her to say sumthin but she never said anything. that whole year it kinda bugged me n i tried looking for her so that i could talk to her but i never found her til 6th grade. i walked into my homeroom class n there she was.. i didn't really say anythin, all i did was just look at her n smiled. she looked at me like i was weird or sumthin. close to the middle of the year one of my friends introduced me to her n again all i did was just looked at her n smiled. she smile back n said what's up. i didn't say anything cuz i didn't have anythin to say. so she just decided to walk back to her friends n ask them y am i not talking n they told her that i was shy that whole year we slowly became best friends n i felt comfortable to talk to her.. but just in a few words. i also wanted to tell her that i liked her but i was afraid of what she was going to say to me. so i decided to tell her when i was ready. then in 7th i changed up a lil n gain a lil confidence. i wanted to finally tell her how i felt bout her but i found out that she was already w/sumone so i just decided to wait for her. one of my best guy friends who i also liked told me i don't really have to wait around so long n told me that i should date other ppl for i lil while.. i did for a lil but then the other guy who i liked broke up w/me cuz i was still too shy lol n close to the end of the year her n her bf broke up n i wanted to finally tell her how i felt but she was upset so i decided to wait a lil longer. n finally the day before my 13th birthday i told her how i felt bout her n she told me that she felt the same way n finally asked her out n since then we've been together until 9th grade (high school) sumthin happened between us n slowly grew apart. she had to break up w/me cuz we couldn't take the pain n drama but since now she still had deep feelings for me but i don't really wanna get back w/her cuz of how many time's she've been hurting me... but that's another story... now i honestly moved on from her n i have a bf ^.^ but she's still trying to chase after me like what i did before.. i'm not letting her do that......
by the way.. i'm so sorry this story is long.. didn't really break it down lil like i said i would heheh sweatdrop

.... my brother found gay porn on my comuter... xd but rather than talking to me about it he told my parents.

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on a car ride with my mom she cornered me and outright asked if i was gay. i was 18 or 19, and man... what an UNCOMFORTABLE car ride! >.<

she was crying for a while.. and it took her a few months to get over it...

my parents are mostly fine now.. my dad and i don't talk to much anymore however..

my siblings on the other hand. they think that it is AWESOME. a gay person was the one type we didn't have in the family yet, so in they're eyes i'm just balancing out the family a bit more.

now everyone knows accept for one person. a certain guy i like. redface

its ok I enjoy listening to other coming out stories

lol aww how cute

Anymore I am open with my sexuality. Way more than I realize. I never really think "oh hey I'm gay. I like guys." I just think " I am with him."