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 Posted: Sun Jul 19, 2009 11:22 pm
Okays, I'll make this short.. Me and my GF have been going out for about...3 months now, and I've known her for about a year and a half. she's super awesome and we really like each other... My problem is, I want to try and kiss her, but 1 i don't really...Know how, 2 I'm not sure if she wants to.. And I don't just wanna go up and ask 'hey, wanna kiss?' Cuz that would be totally weird, and strange.. Also My school is CRAZY!! I've lost about half my friends when they realized my religion >.< which is total bull crap because they just dont like that i dont believe in god.. (im Pagan/Wiccan) And lost even more of my friends when I told them have a Girlfriend..I live in the south, so they aparently dont like the, non-believing, bisexual people here...I'm originally from Wisconsin so I'm a northern. *eyeroll* I hate this place, so much...On top of all that, I play 3 sports, Volleyball, Basketball, and Softball...My schedule for Basketball isn't bad at all..Softball is a bit more time-taker...But volleyball is worst of all...On days I have practice (i also have school) I have it 3-5 (get off school at 2:40) get home, eat dinner, do homework, then go to bed..Then days I have games, I go to school (6-2:40) then I go home for 10 minutes, just time to get ready for my game, leave for my game...get back at 7, eat something, do homework, take a shower, than go to bed.. the only days i get off are the weekends, but I still have to wake up really early and run for thirty minutes..So during the week i have no time for anything except school/volleyball...until October..Grrr.....everyone is saying I should just quit it, but the thing is practice hasn't even started yet and I don't want my mom to think she bought all the stuff for nothing >.< I dont expect anyone to give me sympathy, i don't need a shouler to cry on...I just need to know what people think I should do, about both things..Most people are probably rolling their eyes reading this whole thing, thinking I'm a cry baby about the whole thing and should just get over it...But people need free time! I mean only have 2 days a week for anything is kind of dumb!
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Posted: Sat Aug 01, 2009 8:39 pm
Plz need help....pleeeeaaasseee...
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Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 8:57 am
..... Well I suppose I have some advise about you and your girlfriend.
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 2:32 pm
For problem 1: Just do what comes naturaly, find the right moment, and heck, just go for it! If she really likes you worst that'll happen is a bit of an awkword moment. Problem 2: If they don't like you for who you are f**k 'em! I learned that lession a long time ago and it's not like the opinions of these friends are going to matter when you eventualy move (I'd assume you would, seeing how you mentioned you hate where you live). As for problem 3: Maybe you should learn to orgenize your time better and not overwhelm yourself. Maybe next year only take one or two different sports so you're entire school year isn't just work work work. This has been a Xyonai moment, hope it's helped.
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 4:05 pm
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Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2009 2:44 pm
thx but no thx...she broke up with me anyway so it dont matter..
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yummeh-applesauces Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 1:45 pm
That is SO not a crybaby moment. Having such a busy schedule really does suck. I have the same problem. School from 7:30 to 2:05; soccer practice from 2:30 to 4:00 (games are at 3:30 or 4:00, but we warm up an hour earlier); homework, dinner, bed. I only get about an hour online now per week day, unless it's a Tuesday or a Friday.
Then on Saturdays my three sisters each play for two teams, though the twins are on the same team, thankfully. So we have to travel between five games every Saturday. Two for one, two for the twins, and then a pick-up game for me. Things just get so hectic it's hard to keep up with it all. And to add to all that, I have to get Straight-As every term. So it's hard. I can understand you there.
The religion thing? If they have a problem with your religion, they really should get a life. Suck it up. That's almost racism... Except it's got something to do with religion, and I forget the word for that. Sorry, lol. I AM Christian, but I'm not Catholic like everyone else. And I missed my first communion. xP But I have a friend who is Wiccan. And I really don't take my religion as seriously as I should. I haven't been to my own church since fourth grade. I'm dragged to a Catholic church everytime I spend the night at my grandparents.
Also, they really can't be your friends if they have a problem with sexuality either. Honestly, what's so wrong about being Wiccan/Pagan and Bi? Nothing is wrong about it. They're basically telling you to NOT be yourself if you wanna be their friend. And that isn't right. They should just get over themselves. I swear, if you lived up here in MA or if I live where you live, I wouldn't ditch you for those stupid reasons. My aunt is gay but that doesn't change the way I love her. I think she married an amazing woman, because they both are so much fun to be around. My aunt is a bit of a role model, cause she didn't care what other people thought and she went forward with her life by being herself.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. It's the rest of the world that's coocoo in the head for leaving you because you are being yourself. -virtual hug-
And I'm sorry that she broke up with you. I wish I could be there to help you out. If you need someone to talk to, please don't hesitate to message me. I'll listen.
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