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Gosh! I don't know what to advise as I never had people ask stuff like that. I did find that I had to deal with a lot of uninvited tummy-patting - I don't like being touched by strangers. For that, if I noticed them moving in for a pat - I'd just say that I preferred that they didn't as it made the baby kick more (it didn't).
I found that it was the post-birth uninvited criticism I struggled with way more - complete strangers criticising my choice of clothing for an infant! I guess at first I was too hormonally challenged and wouldn't stand up for myself but after a bit I'd argue right back!

I've been getting so many people asking me all sorts of horribly personal and somewhat insulting questions, and even more horribly insulting comments.
My Boyfriends Mother keeps telling me that she doesn't believe it's my Boyfriends baby. She keeps telling me how stupid I am for choosing not to abort it. That He's wasting his life on me. Blah blah blah....

I very politely tell her to shove it. 3nodding