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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 12:35 pm

I tend to display anti-social tendencies. I hate going to offices and I hate speaking in the phone. I could go further with it but the point is I avoid social aqwardness like the plague, even if in the long run its is inevitable that I must do this or that every day I hold it off the result will get worse and worse. I hate answering the phone. I think my problem is that I always assume it will be bad news. I'm even the same with mail, I always assume it is bad news so I wont open it. I'll wait and wait and wait. Which is bad for a lot of reasons...

I know deep down that it is a very immature to do something like that, but...I'm immature so, yeah.
Not sure if I am asking for help so much as venting about my inadequacies.

Discuss: My problem.

Do you have troublesome habits like this one?

Behaving like an adult rather than a child, a perpetual struggle for you?

Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 1:49 pm

i'm a bit anti-social too. i don't like talking on the phone much from a fear of awkward pauses. That or I just don't want to talk but they do.
The only thing I do that an adult really shouldn't is...hmm... well when I was waay younger, I used to touch myself down there for no particular reason. Just to comfort myself, I guess. It was an innocent kind of touching, I was like 6 or 7. Recently, I notice My hand is touching me down there. and I didn't even do it consciously.
Too odd.
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 3:15 pm

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i'm a bit anti-social too. i don't like talking on the phone much from a fear of awkward pauses. That or I just don't want to talk but they do.
The only thing I do that an adult really shouldn't is...hmm... well when I was waay younger, I used to touch myself down there for no particular reason. Just to comfort myself, I guess. It was an innocent kind of touching, I was like 6 or 7. Recently, I notice My hand is touching me down there. and I didn't even do it consciously.
Too odd.
x___X

Yeah, phone convo sucks : p I always have trouble ending the conversation. Im like,"......Ummmm.....Yeah.....................Hows the weather ummm..."
But lately I have been able to force the conclusion to the conversation when I need to. I usually just say some bs like I've to to go do something right away. lol
I have some other tendences that never seemed to fade as child hood passed. One is that I constantly feel the need to touch things. Especially when shopping.
And I chew on things...I used to chew the hell out of my toys when I was a kid. Either some anxiety thing or I have a tactile fascination.

Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 5:19 pm

I'm a really social person.. which makes it suck even more when I'm stuck in my college town and all of my friends have gone home for the summer.

See, with phone conversations, I prefer to make them short and to the point, to avoid the whole awkwardness... That's also why I prefer texting.
The only time I don't pick up the phone is when I'm out of minutes xD
I screen a lot mroe on msn. There are certain people who are way more attached to me than I'd like them to be, and I just end up not responding to them because I know the conversation will either not go anywhere or be really repetitive.

My only problem is that when I'm alone, I think. Like, way too much. I have a tendency to think myself into a rut and end up depressing myself.

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Posted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 1:30 am

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I'm a really social person.. which makes it suck even more when I'm stuck in my college town and all of my friends have gone home for the summer.

See, with phone conversations, I prefer to make them short and to the point, to avoid the whole awkwardness... That's also why I prefer texting.
The only time I don't pick up the phone is when I'm out of minutes xD
I screen a lot mroe on msn. There are certain people who are way more attached to me than I'd like them to be, and I just end up not responding to them because I know the conversation will either not go anywhere or be really repetitive.

My only problem is that when I'm alone, I think. Like, way too much. I have a tendency to think myself into a rut and end up depressing myself.

I do the same on MSN to be honest.

I only have a handfu of frineds who I talk to everyday, and message ASAP once they're online.

And you all know who you are <3

I love phone calls, but I only have hour lng ones with friends who I'm really close with.

Posted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 5:26 pm

sometimes i can be anti social. there are just those days where i would rather shut myself up in my room and listen to music than be out doing something stupid.

today is one of those days, but i might go out tonight. i havent decided yet

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