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If your parents are divorced, going through the papers, or you may think they might I've made this forum for discussing what you think is going on with your parents.
Divorce affects everyone, your parents, siblings, and you. If you feel like it's your fault, it's not. This is a descion between your parents amongst themselves.

Describe what you're going through and how you feel about this.

For me: My parents are divorced but when they did divorce I was only 4. I like both families and don't love my dad but still appreciate what he does for me. I've gained two stepbrothers and I'm very happy that my mom is happier.

My family has been broken twice... My dad left when i was little because mom and dad couldn't stand each other... mom got remarried to a creep i never trusted and my real dad moved out of state... I only see him once or twice a year if even that... my oldest sister brought my stepdad to court under charges of child molestation of her when she was in 7th grade... so the second divorce came and my whole family got a little messed up in my mom drinking and smoking as my sisters fell into drugs... i'm the only one that didn't get completely messed up in the head from this ordeal so i would appreciate it if i wasn't outcast in this guild anymore thanks...

It's not that easy to explain without you thinking i'm completely insane... so i'll start with this... in general in life i am an outcast as i don't really fit in any particular place... Not to mention that fact that in one of the first rps i joined in this guild i was instantly "blocked out" via being ignored for a character that was more interesting at the moment... Also i suppose you could say i got the idea of such a thing from that fact that i am a clan owner and have a family like atmosphere there as in if i disappear for but a day they are worried about my well being since i haven't posted where i went... Here there is a completely like of family like atmosphere and almost one as if i myself am being judged simply on my ability to have an amusing character in the first two posts of an rp...

I may be way off in the last bit about being judged but my life has been anything but easy so i have a natural feeling of being judged do to the fact i've noticed even if you say you aren't judging a person you subconsciously are...

Now all this being said you'll all most likely think i'm incredibility odd and need to go see a shirk or something or just try and post back with 'helpful' info to try and help me with my personality issues... in any case i don't want the pity responses, if you are truly interested in getting to know me, i hope that we can all be friends but if you want to sit back and judge you can do that too but you all will be ignored who judge me as i've taken enough of that *hit from my father and family...

might i add when i say you it is not directed specifically at you Musical Band Geek but at everyone that the phrase applies to... yall are smart so i'm sure you can figure it out...