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 Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 6:36 am
If you have been raped or know someone who has I would like to know how you cope with it.
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Posted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 12:21 pm
um, well when i was little there was this girl across my street who molested me.. more then once. we where both about 5. I only started telling people (close to me) recently... i think the hardest part is telling people. but second toi that is blaming yourself, you often feel like it was your fault- when the truth is its not. in no way is it your fault. the best thing iwoukld guess to do after that (to deal with emotion pain) is to get a counselor or to find someone who has experienced that or something similar, etc. i dont really know, since im still kind of on the path to recovoring from my own expericence.
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Posted: Fri Jun 26, 2009 7:54 pm
I've been falsely accused of raping my best friend, by my best friend... I think she coped with it by eating ice cream
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Posted: Sat Jun 27, 2009 8:51 pm
one of my friend has been raped she coped by running away to her best friends house and made a new life
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Posted: Sun Jun 28, 2009 5:44 am
one good book on rape, well its a fiction novel about a girl that was raped, is Speak. its got a movie based on it and its one of my very favorite movies/books.
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Posted: Mon Jun 29, 2009 3:14 pm
I think talking about it to a loved one and time will help one get through it.
I've read some books and watched some movies on girls going through their lives being raped. biggrin
But I hope I never have to experience. It looks like a completely frightning thing to happen...
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Posted: Sun Aug 23, 2009 1:13 am
i was raped lik at the age of 9 ......its been 6 years since then. i still havnt told my love ones. i think about every single day. i cope with by............umm i dont.
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Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2009 9:09 pm
My first boyfriend raped me... We were going out for almost a year at the time and it was the worse day of my life... I made the mistake of locking up every feeling i had instead of talking about it i knew it wasnt my fault but... there was so much going on afterwards i didnt like being touched...by anyone weather it was a hug or whatev but soon i was able to hug friends and but my mask on and make everyone think i was happy... my mask is still on but i finally talked about it with my current bf... it helped like a weight was lifted of my shoulders and he will never know how much it ment to me...He made me talk about it i wasnt convinced it would help but it did and now it means the world to me
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