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 Posted: Wed May 27, 2009 7:28 pm
Well its nothing but i was thinking that theres a lot of people whos parents dont have enough time for them, or some dont care about them.
But I have my parenst at hme with me all day cause tehy dont work to much.
I just noticed that I havent said a word to my dad since ages ago... If I have its just money related .
He doesnt talk to me much, he gives attention to my little bro(whos like 13)
I dont talk to him, and mom says its me and not him...
I dont get it, I just feel bad cause I have him here dont talk to him, dont know what to say to him.. ect.
This also happens to my grandpa, I only have 1 left cause the otehr one died, and I dont even look at him, give him my hand or anything.
Any advice... whats wrong with me ?
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Posted: Fri May 29, 2009 11:18 am
theres nothing wrong with you. in my opionon the parents are the ones who should start the bonds. my mother and father (birth father) are the same way. me and my mom were like really bad. we hadnt talked at all for like three years (not even a hi or nothing). i saw that she wasnt going to start this parent child relationship so i made the first move. one day i walked up to her and told her i wanted to talk to her. we talked and then thats how the relastionship started. at first it was like hi ad bye but the more we talked the better it got. so just go up to ur dad and ask him how his day went. start small and the more you talk the better it gets biggrin idk if that helpped lolza ^^"
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Posted: Fri May 29, 2009 1:35 pm
My parents are never home
they either leave a babysitter [[for some gay reason]] or they call my grandma but me and my parents haven't talked for five years already so i can't really help sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri May 29, 2009 8:46 pm
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Posted: Sat May 30, 2009 10:16 am
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Posted: Sat May 30, 2009 11:23 pm
hm?
-turns and sees you-
o///o
uh..lolza nothing imprtant ^^;
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Posted: Sun May 31, 2009 5:43 pm
Thanks for posting =)
Oh thats nice if I were alone in my house I would bring girls =o
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Posted: Mon Jun 01, 2009 9:08 am
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Posted: Mon Jun 01, 2009 11:42 am
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Posted: Wed Jun 03, 2009 6:43 am
To go inside a pool(if u got one)
to play and stuff like that wink
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Posted: Wed Jun 03, 2009 9:36 am
see i find that hard to believe knowing that ive had past experiences with that. stare
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Posted: Wed Jun 03, 2009 1:59 pm
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Posted: Fri Jun 05, 2009 9:53 am
anywho are you felling better jose and my love?
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Posted: Sat Jun 06, 2009 8:58 pm
im good and Jose u should have put something else for title cuz it sound like it says its my problem or urs lol mrgreen
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Posted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 5:56 pm
I choose to ignore my dad.
Just talk to your dad about anything. Find out what he's interested in.
Hang out with him and your brother.
Besides, your dad should come to you.
What a lot of people do in this situation is get really depressed and rejected
OR
they get annoyed and mad and hold a grudge against them.
Both aren't healthy.
Find out why your dad doesn't talk to you.
A while ago, my dad punched me, then a few months later he punched me again, so I started to ignore him because I was sick of it. The annoying part is that he ignored me back but always said snotty comments to me and I couldn't do anything back because he is way bigger and way stronger. Now he talks to me like everything is fine and every time he talks to me I cringe.
(wow I feel like this is supposed to be my forum for help)
But just try to talk with him, and talk to your brother to see what your dad likes about him.
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