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 Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2009 5:56 am
(I posted this in the forums, but im posting it here cuz maybe teh awesome SE members can help me. 3nodding )
Okay, I have a boyfriend, and i love him alot. So far, he's been the best boyfriend i've had. He treats me like a person (and not a sex toy >_< ) , actually cares about me, and my feelings, yada yada yada...
But my best friend (lets call her 'J') thinks he isnt treating me right. 'J' is scared, cuz if this turns bad... Well, lets just say another friend of mine calls it my "Suicidal tendencies". X_x;
My bf actually admitted to 'J' that, yeah he may not be treating me the best he can. 'J' told him that we might have to break up, and he freaked. His exact words were "I cant break up with her, i love her, shes the best girl in the world". 'J' agreed about that, but she said i would have to break up with him. He freaked even more, and actually pleaded me NOT to break up with him, even though at the time i didnt know what was going on (They were talking over msn). I explained to them that i wouldnt be able to break up with him, i love him way to much to even think about breaking up. 'J' is scared for me. She wants me to talk to him.
How do i talk to my bf without giving the sense that i might break up with him (even though i wont)?
And how do i do it without randomly starting to cry and showing my depression? >_<
And should he treat me better since he thinks I'm the best girl in the world? stare confused sad
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Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2009 10:43 am
Unless I'm missing something... I think that "J" wants your BF...
I say you b***h slap her 3nodding
But seriously you should tell him that your not going to break up with him and go talk to "J" about why she would do that.
And would you have asked the last question if this hadn't happened? Sounds like he was doing a good job to me.
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Posted: Tue Apr 21, 2009 12:05 pm
VincentValintine LimitBrk Unless I'm missing something... I think that "J" wants your BF... I say you b***h slap her 3nodding But seriously you should tell him that your not going to break up with him and go talk to "J" about why she would do that. And would you have asked the last question if this hadn't happened? Sounds like he was doing a good job to me. I agree. it does sound like he's doing a good time. I'm not too sure "J" wants your boyfriend but it's a possibility, she also might just want you to herself or she could be one of those sick and twisted people that thinks that if they're not happy no one else should be and is trying to ruin your happiness. The wanting your BF is more likely though.
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Posted: Sat Apr 25, 2009 10:03 pm
It also seems to me that this 'J' is overreacting due to paranoia from a bad past experience and feels that you might be headed down the same course that she was. (scribbles in notepad and puts inkblots away)
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