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 Posted: Mon Apr 06, 2009 8:54 pm
I think I'm in the right place for this.
My friend whom I have been friends with for many years became engaged a while age ( as far as I know her parents don't know), he's living with her and for reasons I won't mention can't really go back home.
Now he loves her to death and she loves him I'm sure but a good amount of the time his free nature often gets on her nerves and they end up arguing over nothing, and it can get pretty heated so I'm told.
One thing in particular is anime, he and I love watching anime and discuss it often, she thinks it's wierd and says it reminds her of the p06n she found on her ex's com one day, so that makes her mad.
Another thing is rpging, we used to do it a lot but she never really wanted to beacuse she never really saw the point in it I guess?
I'm sorry to say she has a really negative personality, she's a good friend of mine but there are times that she can really bring us all down due to like a headache or having a moody day or whatever.
We DO all play on WoW together but...it's not the same as actually hanging out with them, and it feels like that's all they ever do for fun anymore and...I find myself avoiding them on there beacuse I don't wanna be friends with an undead priest and a troll shaman.
I know she prob can't help it but it's kinda bumming me out. Idk I prob sound like a jerk and I don't blame you for thinking me one so go ahead and comment or whatever...
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Posted: Mon Apr 06, 2009 10:44 pm
If they're engaged, and you're one of their best friends, I think you guys should really talk it over. Solve everything before it's too late. >.< I don't like the way she doesn't allow you guys to watch anime and play RPG games, it's weird. And she should also accept the fact that p06n is... well, sorta inseparable with guys. Dunno though. I mean, as long as it doesn't take up a major part of your life, it should be ok. @_@ Maybe you guys need to get to the bottom of it, why she hates it. Because it makes her insecure? Maybe she's got a low self-esteem? Then her fiance should just prove his love all the more. Find out why she's acting all b****y. Sorry to say, but she sounds like one. >_< Or maybe... one of you is just being overly sensitive.
I hope that helps, cause I'm not the best advice-giver around. But I wish you guys the best. ^^
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Posted: Sun Apr 12, 2009 1:46 pm
one part of me thinks that you guys should all talk it over where another part thinks that she's making a bunch of big mistakes. It seems to me like she's trying to control him in a sense and she needs to let the past go. Her fiance' is not her ex so stop comparing them. it's only going to make things worse and the relationship will go no where.
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