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 Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 5:34 pm
There is this guy I like, his name is Reed, who lives in Iowa, and I live in Florida. We met on gaia through our ex [yeah.. we used to date the same girl.. don't even wanna go into detail about her... rolleyes ], and started talking on yim. We both like the same things, and he is close to my age.. I am 22, he is 21. We were both screwed by our ex, and yet, he still is her sick little puppet. He still talks to her, even though she makes him feel like s**t, sometimes to the point where he wants to kill himself. And I am the one who has to talk him out of it every time she does it, and the next day he acts like nothing happened!
And now there is a guy where I live, who I have known since the 6th grade, that would be probably a good 8 years, who is starting to like me. I told Reed this, in hopes of him being jealous, but instead, Reed wants me to go out with him... I guess he wants me to be happy, but the only way I will be happy is with Reed.....
Should I just talk myself into the idea that me and Reed will only be friends and nothing more?
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 7:55 pm
He isn't over her. Trust me, you don't want to even try to go into a relationship with someone who's still hung up on someone else. That just leads to heart break. I say, go out with this other guy casually and see how that feels. Give both yourself and Reed a little time to mull things over.
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Posted: Sat Mar 21, 2009 6:22 pm
Well, I went on a 'date' with the other boy last night.. and he just wants to be friends.... =/
why do I always have this bad luck with guys? -sighs-
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Posted: Sat Mar 21, 2009 8:56 pm
What's so bad about being just friends with guys~? Romantic relationships bomb, but friendship can be permanent a little more often.
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Posted: Sun Mar 22, 2009 9:03 pm
There isn't anything wrong with being friends, but having a boyfriend would be nice.. I'm one of those needy times... sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Mar 22, 2009 9:29 pm
Oy vey is it difficult to find someone during those needy times. Maybe you just need to get a pet spider or take some bassoon lessons, then try to enter into a relationship when that neediness passes, unless you're willing to settle for a schmuck. In that case, I may know someone.
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Posted: Sun Mar 29, 2009 10:32 pm
I am trying to accept the fact that we will only be friends, and I guess that is better than nothing. I would rather have his as a friend then to lose him completely.
And who knows, hopefully there is someone here for me.. I just have to try to think positive.
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Posted: Mon Mar 30, 2009 3:36 pm
SuchABeautifulNightmare I am trying to accept the fact that we will only be friends, and I guess that is better than nothing. I would rather have his as a friend then to lose him completely.
And who knows, hopefully there is someone here for me.. I just have to try to think positive. Don't think positive; think POSITIVELY. . . or at least grammatically, please. Sorry, I just couldn't let that go.
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Posted: Wed Apr 01, 2009 7:55 am
Dr. Awkward SuchABeautifulNightmare I am trying to accept the fact that we will only be friends, and I guess that is better than nothing. I would rather have his as a friend then to lose him completely.
And who knows, hopefully there is someone here for me.. I just have to try to think positive. Don't think positive; think POSITIVELY. . . or at least grammatically, please. Sorry, I just couldn't let that go. I hate feeling like this
I'm so tired of trying to fight this
sweatdrop Sorry... lol.
I'm asleep and all I dream of
Is waking to you.
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