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 Posted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 12:52 pm
Hello Hello! I'm a little sad that no one has posted up in my forum lately... so, I decided to do one of myself to stir something up I hope!
Anyhow, here's my little dilemma that you peoples should comment or advise on, it's a little pickle so a little help is a little nice!
So! I have this friend I met. He's uber cool! He plays the guitar, likes to talk about the same subjects that I do. Mostly, he talks about personal stuff and I share a couple examples to relate. This guy has been a super nice friend in being there, even though it has been a couple of months since we met, and we've become really quick friends. The problem is... as much as I just hang out and chill with him... he seems to say things that makes me think he's being a lot friend..lier. Is it me being paranoid, or he really trying to give signs! Here are some examples from him:
First, He tells me he'd rather hang out with me than all his other friends.
Second, He's says things like this - "I try not to think about you when I'm not with you," "I missed you," "you make me feel amorous,"
He doesn't say all these things randomly, and we always get to a topic that allows such easy oppurtunities to say them... but still, he didn't have to and he does... I'm REALLY hoping he doesn't have more to it... but I'm denial aren't I? : /
If I am, do you think I should outright ask him if he likes me? I've been delaying it, cause of my state of denial and cause I feel like it'll change the relationship... I dunno, opinions please?
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Posted: Thu Mar 12, 2009 11:31 pm
It depends on how tormented you are with not knowing. Personally, I never had a problem. If a person wants to tell me something that badly, he/she will eventually get the motivation to tell me somehow. If not, it's not important enough for me to notice anyway.
Honestly, I don't think either option is any better or worse than the other.
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shall she sail seas Vice Captain
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Posted: Fri Mar 13, 2009 4:45 pm
Hm... true. I think it's not a big issue when we're around each other... but sometimes it gets awkward cause of it. And, even then I don't say anything about it...
I hope he sticks around though, he's a really good friend.
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