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I really need some guy help right now...

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TamiNii_13

PostPosted: Sat Feb 21, 2009 8:23 pm


Okay, so I'm in a relationship and the guy is kinda... well.... I'll explain:
Before we were dating I really thought I was in love with him. But now I don't totally have a grasp on my feelings. When he first asked me, things were great, I really thought he adored me and loved spending time with me. About 3 months have past and he's always hanging out with his friends on the weekends, when I'd like to spend time with him. I told him that I didn't like it, and he must have misunderstood because now he invites me to hang with his friends and him. I really like his friends because they respect me and we can have fun when we all hang out, but there's one problem. Most of his friends are on drugs. I don't feel the need to stay away from people on drugs, they're like my friends now too. It's just I'm not on drugs and I don't want to start.
He also doesn't really appreciate my love of art...
Plus, I never have alone time with him, no matter what I do! It's really starting to bug me but I really like this guy! Please help...  
PostPosted: Sat Feb 21, 2009 11:56 pm


Tough position. I know the temptation and you don't want to fall into something against your will.
Explain to him that you want some proper alone time. This way you should get more time with him, and less exposure to his friends habits, without him feeling like your trying to split them all up.
And about the art - you can't make someone like what they don't have in interest thing but if he's being obnoxious ask him not to be. If its just that he doesn't get it, well what are you going to do? You'd have to leave that one.

little_evil_goth
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TamiNii_13

PostPosted: Sun Feb 22, 2009 10:16 am


Thanks for the advice! I really was freaking out because I think I may love him! heart
PostPosted: Mon Feb 23, 2009 10:21 pm


Anytime, that's what I'm here for you.

little_evil_goth
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