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My ex is officially an emotion-leech... or what some might call a "psychic vampire". Yes. EX.

I'm through with him constantly asking me for more support, more patience and more understanding while not giving me much of the same in return. His trauma in childhood is not an excuse. At the very least, he remembers what happened to him.

I don't. All I get are occasional flashbacks and nightmares, and he's finally triggered a huge flashback and panic attack in me. I haven't had one in years. That's the last straw. I don't need to remember s**t that's happened to me just because some a*****e is yelling at me for asking a simple question. (What happened to "I don't know, but I'll try to answer you later"?)

I'm currently back in Hong Kong and it's even worse here. I'm typing this in the room where majority of my nightmares occured. Fun, fun, bloody f***ing fun.