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Well, maybe I can help. This other girl, does she show interest?

Did you meet her on here or IRL?

What's the distance?

And she may only like you as a friend. I call lots of my friends hunni.

across the US (like NY to Cali) or countries?

That's not that far...
well, it's kinda far.
Have you ever tried asking her?

Girls will never be "more clear". But just wait, and don't be too forward.
How long have you known her?

Well, if you met her on here, and you have only known her a few days, how can you know that you love her? I would understood if you liked her, but after a few days, I can't believe that you love her. Lust may be a more appropriate word. I have met people on here that I had fallen for, but it took many weeks, only because of when I got to talk to them or when they left me messages. But cool down, maybe not talk for a few days, think things over, and see what you come to. And just be friends, don't look for anything more. You might be doing that because you just broke up with your girlfriend, looking for someone new to replace her. And this girl happened to catch you. Just talk, chat, learn things about each other, and if you find more qualities you like in her, keep them to yourself. See if she starts to change how she is. Becoming friendlier and more open about things. Then maybe, but always ask, it's the easiest way. But don't expect her to say she does like you. She may only become more open, because she trusts you more because she's known you longer. Don't always go looking for a reason that she likes you. And most of all, look for other people. Don't expect every person you want to want you back, trust me, I know this one all of too well. Especially right now. But most girls are alike, and I hope this has been of some help.

I feel like a Psychiatrist. Someone kill me, for I have become the thing I fear most, up next to clowns and boys (well kinda, just what they have that I don't).