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I need advice!! It's for my insane sister.

She had the hotts for this guy for 4 years and knows him inside-and-out. They were best friends even though she knew he was a whore.... Literally! Well, she decided it was enough to be rebound chick so she lost her virginity to him. She thought it was going to be a one night thing, but then he started saying he loved her and all that crap even though he's embarrased to go out in public with her. One day we caught him in front of his work, making out with a girl while feeling up the other one. And now, to make matters worse, she's pregnant but last time she had a scare he was actually going to kill himself if she was. So, what do you suggest for my stupid sister to do??

Well I dont think he would kill himself cause it sounds to me like he's in love with himself to care. But what she needs to do is decide if she's going to keep the baby or not and if so then how is she going to care for it cause she can not depend on him for any support.
I'm sorry things didnt work out for her as well as she hoped they would. I have wayyy too much expience on that topic. Just dont let her blame herself for anything cause thats what can really start to tear someone up.
I really hope things make a turn for the better for her.

well i myself think the guy was not worth 4 years rolleyes . and i feel really sorry for your sister cry . i know how it feels to think someone cares about you and then your thrown away like a pice of trash stare . but any hows um i think your sister should really think this one threw. think of how she could take care of the baby if she decided to keep it and then think of what that would do to the babby growing up without a father. and i think she should just do what she thinks is best for the baby. wow uh you would think i would know more about this when i have watched every episode of the sereat life of an american teenager. oh well if this advice is bad im really sorry. i hope your sister dose what she thinks is right and i hope everthing will turn out well smile

Tell your parents or another adult you trust. He may be mad at you, he may even say he hates you. But he will not mean it. Eventually he will get over it and thank you. I know you promised, but sometimes there are exceptions to rules, this is one of them. If you promise something and someone is in danger, you should tell someone. It doesn't matter that you promised. I hope you do the right thing. I hope you get your brother help.