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Mistress Procellifer
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 13, 2008 12:09 pm


Well, I'll start (I feel like the first one to speak at an AA meeting or something).

My boyfriend has a two-year-old daughter with another woman. Now, I knew all about this so this isn't the crux of the matter. There are important facts that need to be known before the real thing I want to talk about can come out.

a) He isn't on the birth certificate, due to obstinacy on the part of the mother.

b) The mother is American (but has been living in the UK for many years now), whereas me and my bf are British.

c) The mother was due to be on trial for throwing the baby on the floor. It's uncertain whether she dropped her or threw her deliberately at this point

Three weeks ago, the mother skipped her trial and took the baby to America, presumably to go and stay with her mother (who lives somewhere in the US - we don't know where).

Basically, we can't find her.

Does anyone who lives in the States know what could possibly be done to find both mother and baby, just so we know they're safe and well more than anything else?
PostPosted: Wed Dec 10, 2008 7:50 am


I dunno how serious the case is so this might be over-kill but it's worth a shot, I guess.

http://www.amberalert.gov/

You could try tracking them down online, too, as long as you have a full name you should be able to find her. Hope that helps! ^_^

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Mistress Procellifer
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PostPosted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 6:54 am


Araya Hinoko
I dunno how serious the case is so this might be over-kill but it's worth a shot, I guess.

http://www.amberalert.gov/

You could try tracking them down online, too, as long as you have a full name you should be able to find her. Hope that helps! ^_^

Thank you very much for the advice, we're trying everything at the moment, so I'm very grateful. ^_^
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